wtbmummy
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Ok so odd title but basically that. I will give my pros n con list but before i do I have to say I have pkd whi h is hereditary and 50/50 of passing it on. Also means i need to have any children before 30 or my kidneys will not cope and could cause a lot of complications
So our pro list....
* I want to have a positive experiance of pregnancy. Ds's pregnancy was awful but im more active now which o believe will really help.
* Ds would have a sibling. I was an only child, its lonely!!
Errmmm atm they are the only two on the pros list
Cons list
* We want a mortgage and only one child means it can happen sooner so more security for everyone.
* More years of paying out for childcare.
* Chance ds will get jealous and feel left out.
* Having two will be harder than one. The our one is very difficult
* We can do more as three, holidays, day trips etc.. (but then will ds enjoy it going on things on his own)
So yeah..... I cant think of anymore right now.
Dh said last night he knows he wants another baby but its going into the unknown. He thinks deciding between 1 & 2 is much harder than deciding to have ds
So our pro list....
* I want to have a positive experiance of pregnancy. Ds's pregnancy was awful but im more active now which o believe will really help.
* Ds would have a sibling. I was an only child, its lonely!!
Errmmm atm they are the only two on the pros list
Cons list
* We want a mortgage and only one child means it can happen sooner so more security for everyone.
* More years of paying out for childcare.
* Chance ds will get jealous and feel left out.
* Having two will be harder than one. The our one is very difficult
* We can do more as three, holidays, day trips etc.. (but then will ds enjoy it going on things on his own)
So yeah..... I cant think of anymore right now.
Dh said last night he knows he wants another baby but its going into the unknown. He thinks deciding between 1 & 2 is much harder than deciding to have ds