I hate it when people say 'he/she will get teased at school' when it's a perfectly legitimate and acceptable name. And realistically, at the most, they might get a comment or two but I doubt very much it will be an ongoing thing throughout their lives. So what, I got teased at school for being mixed race -do I care? No. Children will always find something to tease about whether it's because you're short, tall, fat, thin, wear glasses, have a birthmark etc. fair enough if you call your child something like Fifi Trixibelle or Apple
Ashley is a perfectly acceptable name for a boy and in fact, was originally a boys name before the girls 'stole' it