He does have problems with breaking routines. We start on monday saying on friday he will he going to his other dad's and keep reminding him. He seems so go okay though, just reluctantly. I know for a fact that his father offers no routine or structure which I think is why it's a rough few days when he comes home. He's happy to get home, but his behaviour is something else! I have talked to his dad about his diagnosis and I have given him the papers the clinic gave to us explaining it and the techniques we use with him, but he doesn't think there is anything wrong with Ian so I'm sure he acts accordingly.
I know I can't change what his dad does, but it's to the point where it is going to go back to the courts. I would like him to have supervised visits if he can't accomodate his son's issues. I don't know. I'm just frustrated and was hoping that maybe there is something more I can do either when he leaves or when he comes home....
Adanma