Aww team pink gets a look in!
Well I have just got back from midwife and her and another midwife have been discussing my case and this is what they feel should happen from now on.
The last few days have been hard for me emotionally and physically.I am not coping so well with the fact my little man is squished and im not coping with the pain.I can feel him thrashing around in there trying to get comfy
She felt my tummy today and it brought tears to my eyes.Ady can't even rub my bump as it hurts and starts the contractions off so her doing her checks didn't help.She can clearly feel and see the Fibroid now and the cyst is poking through.She says he is still in Breech position hence me feeling him thrash about trying to get some room.
She is asking to see me every 4 weeks rather than every 6 and is asking my consultant to see me every 2 weeks.She is also going to monitor me from 34 weeks but she feels I will more than likely have him very early if I don't she wants me to have a section at 37 weeks and has asked me to ask if they can sterilise me and repair the cyst and fibroid all at the same time.
She has explained I will be in hospital for at least 5 days after as I will need Antibiotics and little man will most certainly be in SCBU as he needs Antibiotics after birth an also withdrawal of painkillers.She is asking me to find someone to come and stay with me for 1/2 weeks after birth.Yes Ady will be about but we need someone to have the kids when I am in hospital as I don't think it's fair them seeing me with drips etc.I may ask my mum but we don't talk much and I haven't seen her in 8 years.She is going to see if my health visitor can shed any light and maybe get me help another way ie Social services.
So I feel a bit heartbroken even though I kinda guessed this would be the case.I have the consultant on Thursday so I shall know for definite then what the whole plan of action is.
The two things she has had to do today is get me some bloods reserved for a Transfusion after birth as I will bleed heavy as most fibroid suffers do .I also have to have more swabs for the Group B strep at 36 weeks and another course of Anti biotics.
For now it's rest as much as I can,don't over do and keep up with the pain killers and eat little and often as big meals aggrivate me.
I feel such a idiot.I'm only sodding pregnant but now it's complicated and messy