hey all i havent been online for a while because ive been busy, i got married on 24th so its been crazy lol. erm well i was wondering....has anyones skin on the bottom half of their stomach changed? well mine basically is really strange. the hair follicles on my bottom middle part of my stomach have enlarged (theres no hairs there though), and the texture has gone weird. the only way i can describe the texture is imagine poking play-doh, it keeps the mark of where you poked and then forms back to normal shape. it feels just like dough. its been like that for about 2 weeks. i have a feeling that the midwife might just say its because i had extra weight on me before i got pregnant but i think that is bullcr@p because ive seen bigger ladies and they dont get this skin thing. plus lately my swelling (water retention) has got worse, its no longer just in my legs/feet, its in my face/neck and in my fingers too. i cant even wear my wedding ring because of the swelling, i wore it on my wedding day and havent been able to wear it again since then, its so sad
i have to put it on a chain around my neck now.
anyways, plus does anyone keep getting chest pains? like you are gasping for breath. i sometimes feel like someone pushing down on my chest and i cant breathe. i know its not from my position or from the baby's position either so i was wondering what else it could be.
i just hope the midwife listens to me properly tomorrow and not fob me off with "its normal pregnancy stuff". all i ever hear is to raise my feet and relax etc, for the swelling....but that doesnt help and it sure as hell does nothing for my neck and hands.
i think my only option is to speak to the higher midwife at the hospital when i go next week. they listen to me.