August Beach Bumps - 24 Girls, 27 boys, & 2 team yellow! 39 babies born!!

[ZooMa]

I clicked to join group but didn't see a place to comment to mention my screen name...

 

[ZooMa]

Bar- sorry you're feeling down. I've been even more exhausted these last few days too - and I'm not even back at work yet or taking care of the house. Best of luck finding some energy and sleep! Good to know you'll be getting more help soon.

 

[CelticNiamh]

Bar so sorry your feeling down glad you have help soon

Henderson super cute picture

I got the all clear for my GTT yesterday super happy as they were great numbers 5 fasting and after the sugary drink 5.2

only saw the endo yesterday so need to book an appointment for Ryan and I for the GP lots to ask her still have my hernia

 

[HHenderson]

I feel so teary and emotional.. I am very tired - exhausted. I need to take care of her and I need to work and I need to take care of the house at least sometimes.. But I feel like I am spreading myself too thin.. My MIL is coming to help, and it's great, but I already feel jealous and I just cannot stop crying.

Maybe ask her to do the housework and light baby things instead of full on take care of Lena.. maybe that will make you feed better and more accomplished and not as sad?

 

[HHenderson]

So pissed today! I feel like my husband takes me for granted. I take care of the baby 24/7 yes, theres not an hour in the day where he just 'takes over'. My other daughter was home sick for two days with a high fever he didnt help there either. He has been off since Friday from work and had to attend jury duty Monday, had to go back Tuesday and got selected so now hes back today. Big deal, you sit on your ass and do nothing but listen its not like hes at work busing his ass. Ive been asking him for DAYS to put gas in my car and start it up. Ive been walking to the bus stop in the morning alot lately to help me lose weight. Well its been raining and I needed my car. Well I go to start my car this morning and it wouldnt start. (Mainly from just sitting there and not being turned on) As he was getting in his car he saw this happening. I freaked out!! He just got in his car and drove away as if he can give two shits I had to walk in the FFFFFFFFFFuc*&% RAIN!!!!!! AFTER he asks me to make him a lunch for court when he can easily go buy shit himself knowing I had to get the girls ready.

My husband and daughter NEVER clean up after themselves, EVER!!! The table will be left full of crumbs, my daughter thinks its ok to leave her toys everywhere even though I tell her all the time to put her crap back when shes done. Im just so fricken exhausted all the time now. I am NOT superwoman even though it seems to be. Also, its a MANS job to take out the garbage why the hell do I have to do it for the past 10 years!? Im trying to hold it in but I just want to cry and destroy things. It might make me feed better.

AHhhhhhhh

 

[CelticNiamh]

So pissed today! I feel like my husband takes me for granted. I take care of the baby 24/7 yes, theres not an hour in the day where he just 'takes over'. My other daughter was home sick for two days with a high fever he didnt help there either. He has been off since Friday from work and had to attend jury duty Monday, had to go back Tuesday and got selected so now hes back today. Big deal, you sit on your ass and do nothing but listen its not like hes at work busing his ass. Ive been asking him for DAYS to put gas in my car and start it up. Ive been walking to the bus stop in the morning alot lately to help me lose weight. Well its been raining and I needed my car. Well I go to start my car this morning and it wouldnt start. (Mainly from just sitting there and not being turned on) As he was getting in his car he saw this happening. I freaked out!! He just got in his car and drove away as if he can give two shits I had to walk in the FFFFFFFFFFuc*&% RAIN!!!!!! AFTER he asks me to make him a lunch for court when he can easily go buy shit himself knowing I had to get the girls ready.

My husband and daughter NEVER clean up after themselves, EVER!!! The table will be left full of crumbs, my daughter thinks its ok to leave her toys everywhere even though I tell her all the time to put her crap back when shes done. Im just so fricken exhausted all the time now. I am NOT superwoman even though it seems to be. Also, its a MANS job to take out the garbage why the hell do I have to do it for the past 10 years!? Im trying to hold it in but I just want to cry and destroy things. It might make me feed better.

AHhhhhhhh

I flipped one night and sat all my boys down and let rip but I controlled my self! I felt like you taken for granted and they were forgetting about a new baby in the house and my lack of sleep my hubby is good though and does help out when he can but can be lazy as well but after my talk it has been better!!

you need to sit him down and let rip he has a lot of making up to do for leaving you to walk in the rain

then tackle your daughter remind them your tired and can not wait on them hand and foot

either way hope you feel better

 

[HHenderson]

So pissed today! I feel like my husband takes me for granted. I take care of the baby 24/7 yes, theres not an hour in the day where he just 'takes over'. My other daughter was home sick for two days with a high fever he didnt help there either. He has been off since Friday from work and had to attend jury duty Monday, had to go back Tuesday and got selected so now hes back today. Big deal, you sit on your ass and do nothing but listen its not like hes at work busing his ass. Ive been asking him for DAYS to put gas in my car and start it up. Ive been walking to the bus stop in the morning alot lately to help me lose weight. Well its been raining and I needed my car. Well I go to start my car this morning and it wouldnt start. (Mainly from just sitting there and not being turned on) As he was getting in his car he saw this happening. I freaked out!! He just got in his car and drove away as if he can give two shits I had to walk in the FFFFFFFFFFuc*&% RAIN!!!!!! AFTER he asks me to make him a lunch for court when he can easily go buy shit himself knowing I had to get the girls ready.

My husband and daughter NEVER clean up after themselves, EVER!!! The table will be left full of crumbs, my daughter thinks its ok to leave her toys everywhere even though I tell her all the time to put her crap back when shes done. Im just so fricken exhausted all the time now. I am NOT superwoman even though it seems to be. Also, its a MANS job to take out the garbage why the hell do I have to do it for the past 10 years!? Im trying to hold it in but I just want to cry and destroy things. It might make me feed better.

AHhhhhhhh

I flipped one night and sat all my boys down and let rip but I controlled my self! I felt like you taken for granted and they were forgetting about a new baby in the house and my lack of sleep my hubby is good though and does help out when he can but can be lazy as well but after my talk it has been better!!

you need to sit him down and let rip he has a lot of making up to do for leaving you to walk in the rain

then tackle your daughter remind them your tired and can not wait on them hand and foot

either way hope you feel better

I swear this sitting down and talking to them shit happens all the time. Im the fricken maid apparently and I should get used to it.

 

[Barhanita]

Sorry HH... This sounds awful!! I cannot imagine how you find energy to do all of it. Somehow they will have to be more responsible.

 

[HHenderson]

Has anyone heard of this or practice this? https://www.babyledweaning.com/ Baby led weaning. I was just talking with my husband about it and we think its a fab idea!!! Jeez things are so different from 9 years ago to now. I cannot wait until my LO can sit up on her own and hold things properly.

 

[Barhanita]

it's quite common in Russia
I might try it

 

[setarei]

I've been researching baby led weaning for a while now. Seems like a good idea to me and I can't wait to try it.

 

[HHenderson]

I saw someone give their baby a chip, I might not go that far because of choking but I cannot wait to try it either. My first was a clean freak this baby is going to be messy. Ahh

At what age do people normally stop breastfeeding all together? After 1 when they can use a sippy cup? I dont want to be that parent where the kid is pulling my shirt down and going crazy on the boob and I want to wear NORMAL bras again.

 

[CelticNiamh]

Has anyone heard of this or practice this? https://www.babyledweaning.com/ Baby led weaning. I was just talking with my husband about it and we think its a fab idea!!! Jeez things are so different from 9 years ago to now. I cannot wait until my LO can sit up on her own and hold things properly.

yep I have done it on all of mine even before I knew what it was even if it makes a mess all part of it

I wean close to two years, I have found no one knows your still BF and I normally go back to normal bras when your only feeding 3 times a day and they are as quick as 5 minutes yep it gets that easy I swear by 6 months its second nature for both of you

 

[pola17]

Hey girls!!!

How are you all!!
The FB group was a fantastic idea!

 

[Barhanita]

I think WHO recommends to breastfeed for 2 years. But it's always your decision - any amount is great. I am trying to take 1 month at a time. But I do miss normal clothes... I thought I could wear them after birth, but nope.. only easy-access shirts.. and I love nice waisted dresses..

 

[Barhanita]

I like FB group, but I still prefer the forum for some reason. It's easier to keep track here. Plus, some girls are not on FB.

 

[HHenderson]

I was left alone!!! LOL feel like a loser posting here by myself..

 

[Barhanita]

Hh, I am reading everything you write! Don't feel alone.

 

[JolleyGirl86]

Haha I have still been reading the posts too I'm not sure who everyone is on fb haha

 

[Barhanita]

I am Ksenia on facebook. Well, and in my passport as well