I have a home daycare, so unless i have to be on bed rest, i will be working up til the day i have the baby, then taking 4-6 weeks off. I was nannying when i was pregnant with kylar, and went back to work 2 weeks later! But i had him with me, so i thought it would be ok, no, it was a bad idea. I didnt have enough time to just purely bond with my own child, was still dealing with b/f issues, and could not devote enough time to the other child, they were not happy, it was a bad deal. so this time around i want enough time to bond with my baby , recover and be 100 percent ready to have children back in my home and my care! plus i think i will be having a c-section this time!! All my kids parents knew when i got pregnant, i had to explain why i looked/felt like crap all the time! They were all really cool with it!
As for the topic of what you will need... The new baby is getting all new bedroom furniture, and probably clothes, thats about it... Kylars furniture is what we bought for him so it will stick with him for a loooong time, he has a convertible crib. So this baby will get new .. And as for the clothes, if its a girl, well duh, and if its a boy, kylar was a feb baby, so most things will be out of season. But its so nice that i have practically everything else, so much less stress! Last time I was so worried I wouldnt have everything i needed/really wanted for the baby!!