Thank Kiwi, DH & I just treated ourselves to an eggs benedict brunch and now we're killing time at the library waiting for the FS appointment in an hour. GP appointment was fine and we got the referral no problems - my GPs are so lovely.
***Update: appointment brief but fine. FS ordered more in-depth testing for DH's issues. Also blood tests, ultrasound & HSG for me. External u/sound at the appointment show my uterus hasn't contracted after the mc/D&C earlier this year, which he said is concerning. Dr not willing to give us any feedback on options at this stage. We see him again in about 3 weeks.