Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Newbie32]

Grrrr.....it's so frustrating when it's unexplainable!!

XXX

 

[LLPM]

Yeah I guess I'll wait til tomorrow & see! It's times like this I wish I didn't chart then I wouldn't get so stressed out about it. Lol

 

[Rosie_PA]

Hi all I hoped to surprise you all with a bfp today - sadly the had other ideas! I'm out . Going to make the most of my day though and enjoy he house hunting Ginny am hoping you are right and the first day of this cycle is the first day of my pregnancy!

Love to all xx

0h Angel, I'm sorry. I was so certain you were going to post a pic of a great big , darn , I hate her. This is just crazy! We are way over due for a . So I think you will have to buy the in-laws some ear plugs so they don't hear the ....hahahaha. Fx'd this is the first day of your pregnancy!!!! Happy house hunting!!!!! Xoxoxoxo

 

[Rosie_PA]

Lucy- whew!!! Thank goodness no ectopic! Those are bad news bears!!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Hi girls - hoping you can help?!?! DH is at chemist looking for some lube for us, just wondering what the sperm friendly lube is called again?

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Pammy – someone (maybe nana?) mentioned you have low temps, I would BD and you will prob see a temp rise in the next day or so and crosshairs should appear in about 3-4 days.

Angel – Go girl! Great catch up! Haha I would have been over it at that time of night, but would be so hard to catch up today if you didn’t! Good luck with the open houses! No need to worry about our last SA as they didn’t test it cos the courier was going to be too long after I dropped it off, now we have to do it again next week, and be late to work for it and DH will be on his own! Haha I’ll look into getting some TTC lube before O just as an added help (although, like Melainey, I am feeling VERY slippery down there since EPO, so that might be enough to get some good fertile CM going!)

2 mums – don’t worry, DH tells me that all the time, usually when I’m like that at home, he cops it and then gets to a point where he just gets a bit sad and I have to make a conscious effort to go and say I’m sorry, I’m being a total jerk…. Love me still? Lol One more question, I just wondered what your little one is going to call you both – I assume it will be Mum & Mum, but just wondered if you’re going to have any special names to differentiate between you two… like Mum & Mummy or Mama or Mumsie (that’s what I call my mum quite often) Not that you need that, and I’m sure it is something that would happen over time when little ones start talking, but I’m just curious! 

Kiwi – just shorten names, call us whatever you like! You will pick up eventually, we will all pick up who you’re talking about, and if you get it wrong, you’d just hope we don’t have our bitch badges/hats on as you will cop it!!!!! Haha just kidding  If you want to get into temping, we’ll be great support. I didn’t do it for 11 months, and now absolutely love it. I could go on an ad and sell it I reckon! Haha everyone on here gets so excited about it that it’s all we want to do, and it’s hard to forget about it when it’s the first thing you think of all day. I’d recommend trying it, you will really benefit from knowing where your cycle is up to (even though you already do from OPKs) but every thing helps! Also, one other thing – on the first page, Angel has turned her first post into an updated list of who we are and where we’re up to. It also has real names & birthdays for anyone who wanted to share, so you can always use that cheat sheet!

Nana, your temps still look great! I’m really hoping that your unduffered feeling goes away, you might be one of the lucky ones that only get MS for a couple of weeks at the end of the first trimester! Or not at all like number 2!!!

Maddy – so sorry about missing your window! I think when you’re back together, just BD if possible as a last ditch effort, you never know, you might jag a late Ov!!

Rosie – Hi!!!! Hope your day is going great! Xoxox

Angel – just read about AF – sooo sorry! Hope you’re ok! That’s good, keep up that positive attitude!! 

LLPM – check out Nana’s temps – there is a big difference in the temps, I’d say it’s accurate, just go with it, and remember that individual temps don’t mean anything, it’s the trend over time.

 

[Newbie32]

Hi girls - hoping you can help?!?! DH is at chemist looking for some lube for us, just wondering what the sperm friendly lube is called again?

Conceive plus is one...

 

[LLPM]

Thanks mum2Q!! I think you're right, it just seemed weird for me! You think you're in tune with your body and can roughly predict temps etc....then BAM!! it all screws up!! Lol. I'm hoping higher temps are a good sign. Generally they are a sign of higher progesterone (am I right Rosie?) hopefully my body's having a better go at producing higher levels of FSH and then the LH when ovulation comes round!! we'll see.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Thanks nana!

Lucy, just try to relax. I know it's near impossible, but you will be differs very soon, so just try to focus on other positives in the meantime! Maybe put your mind into planning a fun family weekend next week when dh is home!!

Edit: also, I just checked my chart, and it has similar temps to yours. It might be different for you, but it's not too high, so might just be a difference in your cycle this month. Maybe it's your turn for a BFP!!!

 

[number2woohoo]

Dang - sorry to hear that, Angel.
I was so sure it was your month! This month is a new beginning x

 

[Trying2b2mums]

kiwi at you taking up hammer throwing love it! sorry about that lotto, was keeping my fx you'd win and remember your new friends
patience, keep pee'ing and you'll get a bfp!!! temp is still up, wouldnt it be dropping by now if not duffer mcdufferson?!? And again, cold and fly symptoms = preg symptoms!!!
maddy least you have us to keep you company, although can't help you with the bd thing, i mean me and OH could hook something up for you but dont think thats really up your alley, (no pun intended)
Rosie- damn thought you had the day off! hope you saw and did some interesting stuff all with positive outcomes!!! Sorry bout them steelers, im sure they're just keeping their cards close to their chest!
Angel damn that I hate her!! This has to be the first day of your pregnancy!! FX for a easy painless AF and on to more
mum2q- we've talked about what the bub will call us, and done research on two mum names and what kids end up doing etc.. i still have an accent sometimes so it wouldnt be out of this world for there to be a mom and a mum, but from we can tell the little ones actually just work it out for themselves, they pick their own names, sometimes its different, sometimes they are the same but you can tell by inflection, or if they yell mum and the 'wrong' one answers they say ' noooo not you, other mum' so we'll just see where our little one takes us and what they decide, but in the beginning ill probably be mum or mummy, i'm mumma to the dogs so that might stick too, and OH likes muzzy (but i dont ) but whatever she wants, but if its coming from me sometimes it still turns out like mom/mommy, so little one might pick up on that! Who knows!!! Bit confusing though hey
Had brekky, caught up here, but now i'm being ordered to get dressed by OH we're going out, errands, shopping, and im going to slip in a pedicure, a much needed pedicure!!!!!
Be back later. Hope everyone has an excellent day!! Sorry if i missed anyone!!!

 

[Newbie32]

Morning 2 mums....my temp has been all over the place at 9dpo in other months, but generally doesn't drop off until the day of af...which is weds, so time will tell!

Surely if these were pg symptoms it wouldn't be bfn!!!!!

Maybe we can wish me duffers! I'll give it a go ;-)

Have a great day and enjoy your pedi!

X

 

[Melainey]

Good morning ladies

2Woohoo – I use a word doc to catch up every morning cause all these bloody chatter boxes talk too much haha I don't like not getting most things in on my update hehehe

Kiwi – I like your style getting in before we wake up oh and Ireland is always full of weirdos no need for full moons I have had my fair share of stalkers (no joke haha) Newbie is another Sasha Have you tried burger bites back in Ireland? Much nicer than burger rings Have a nice sleep

you are only early YOU ARE DUFFERS!!! Thank you about FF that is sooooo much cheaper than the site HOw dare they do that haha!!

Maddy – Oh my god NO !!! YOU SHOULD HAVE RAPED HIM!!! Just tonight if you can hopefully you haven't missed your window

Rosie – Helllooooooooo

Angel –I’m so sorry the bitch arrived! Gosh I hate her Enjoy your house hunt and I hope you find your perfect family home Oh and as for the earplugs I have been living with BIL for 8 months now and he hasn’t heard us yet hahaha I’m normally very very noisy but you can be quiet when you want to be hehehehe

LLPM – Maybe you should take your temp vaginally and orally tomorrow and see what the difference is between them ? So sorry your body is messing you about It is horrible not knowing

Pammy – Yeah I say keep on incase you haven’t ovulated yet (always nice to have hehehe )

2mums nice offer for Maddy hahahahah enjoy your pedicure

As for me this morning ... Temps are still down so haven't O'd early But still got my time in last night and a really nice stiffy in this morning too hehehehe I love morning glories even if I am tired it's not for long hehehe I think we will leave the SA till next month or maybe even after I O cause I really do not want to miss it this month And also I am feeling extra horny the past week so no for 3 days will kill me I have been having the most random dreams about glitter cocaine and suicide pacts and murder it has been a little weird the past 2nights hahahah!!

x

 

[Rosie_PA]

Hey what on earth is glitter cocaine???

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

2 mums - I'm hearin ya! I think it's the kind of thing that will develop over time. you can tell a kid to call you something, but they will always end up saying what they like. They will say something cute or cheeky one day and it will stick. It will probably even change along the way, my sisters kids always go through phases of what they call her... its mum then mummy then mamma, They will find a way to let you know which one they want, just the same as they do with mums & dads! I think the most important thing for your OH is to not EVER take it to heart if the child wants you instead of her as it's just the same as a kid wanting their mummy instead of daddy or vice versa, but doesn't mean they think she's any less of a mum than you are... only saying that as being the non-bio mum it would be easy to have a 'moment' if she can't settle the baby etc. I'm sure you both talk about this kind of stuff anyway, you seem to have a very supportive relationship, I just thought I'd throw my 2 cents worth in as I just know you guys will be the best at making this work!!

Newbie - You won't necessarily have a BFP with symptoms at this stage, symptoms are caused mainly by the high levels of progesterone rather than the HcG. So your high temps would be explained, and your MS relatred to that without having the HcG swtrong enough..

 

[Melainey]

I haven't got a clue Dawn It was a bucket of what we thought was glitter and looked like glitter but turned out it was a new drug called glitter cocaine haha now I could not imagine trying to snort normal cocaine let alone glitter hahaha

 

[Rosie_PA]

I haven't got a clue Dawn It was a bucket of what we thought was glitter and looked like glitter but turned out it was a new drug called glitter cocaine haha now I could not imagine trying to snort normal cocaine let alone glitter hahaha

You crack me up! I thought glitter cocaine was a new drug I hadn't heard of yet....I could just see myself interrogating patients, "ma'am are you sure you haven't taken any drugs???? Not even any that were pretty and sparkily and looked like glitter????????" BAHAHAHA

 

[Rosie_PA]

Omg! I had a rough day at work- between me and the doctor we saw 86 patients in 12 hrs!!!! Ugh!!! And I have to do it all over again tomorrow!!!! I wanna be a stay at home mom and Im not even duffers yet!!!!

 

[Melainey]

I haven't got a clue Dawn It was a bucket of what we thought was glitter and looked like glitter but turned out it was a new drug called glitter cocaine haha now I could not imagine trying to snort normal cocaine let alone glitter hahaha

You crack me up! I thought glitter cocaine was a new drug I hadn't heard of yet....I could just see myself interrogating patients, "ma'am are you sure you haven't taken any drugs???? Not even any that were pretty and sparkily and looked like glitter????????" BAHAHAHA

Hahahahah haha I don't have any control over what I dream about haha but after dreaming about the glitter cocaine I dreamt about a haunted hotel so if there is such a thing as glitter cocaine i'm staying away from it haha

 

[Melainey]

Awwww no Rosie Don't you wish you were a bum like me hahahah!!

I seen this pic on facebook and had to share with you guys

(please don't take offence)