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Yay! catch that eggy nana!!!! I have a really good feeling about you this month, I think you will be our next BFP!!!! :) woo hoo!!
 
Yeah lets hope ladies it is a sleep issue with my temp... FF says the 26th for AF... so Sunday!! If no AF by Monday I will test again.

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TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
 
Heya squigley!

Ok,ive just caught up now. Id like to know why it seems like this thread has now gone from being a sickly thread, to being an egg shy thread. All of you SHY eggs need to get out here NOW!!!!! Its lovely that you're all so nice and comfy in your ovaries up there, but the newsflash is that there are some sexy little spermies waiting for you just outside in the corridor wanting to take you to a MUCH nicer, cosier place! So come and play!!!!

Im not going to comment on everything that ive missed or i'll have an essay here that goes for more than a page of the thread but at least I now know whats going on with everyone!!!

I am very glad its friday today! I got up at 5am and went for a good cycle in the dark through the national park and up a few climbs - was great fun although i freaked myself out with the shadows and nearly crashed trying to avoid riding over a mouse or something that ran accross my path!!! BAHAHAHAHAHA

Does anyone have any exciting plans for the weekend? Lots of cycling for me! (boring old :jo: that i am ;))

THanks squigley! Funny this month, because of all the things that ive started planning for over the next 6 months or so, i feel like the urgency has been taken out of TTC and i feel way calmer about it,and much more like 'it will happen when it will happen' rather than 'it must happen now'!!! Which is good i think!!

DH at dinner last night was talking about what we would do if it turned out that he had NO viable swimmers at all, as in worst possible case etc etc, and said he would never want to get donor sperm, would only look to adopt...he said it would be no different for him that way anyway. I pointed out would be pretty different for me, and he kinda said tough!!! hmmm...not sure how that makes me feel...have any of you guys had that chat to your other halves? Ive always seen the whole carrying and growing the baby thing as such an important part - and i dont know if i could go without that by choice!!!!

Anyways, better get on with it eh!

Love love love xxx
 
LLPM said:
Sorry pammy! It really sucks. How long have you been trying?
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I have been kinda trying and we have been not preventing for nearly 12 months. you?

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TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
 
It's a frustrating place to be Pammy! I hate those days close to when AF is due. I don't want you to be dissapointed and you definitely aren't out yet, but just assume the temp is correct & that AF is coming then anything other than that is great! I'm the worst at over thinking things and convincing myself that my chart/FF is wrong lol. I guess that's what happens when you've been trying for a while and you want it so bad! Not sure if you saw my question before but How long have you been trying?
That's the reason I'm going to stop charting after O has been confirmed. I hate watching my temps and getting stressed about it all during the TWW!

I'm an emotional wreck today! My friend just out up a pic on Facebook of their new 'family of 5' and I burst into tears!
 
LLPM said:
It's a frustrating place to be Pammy! I hate those days close to when AF is due. I don't want you to be dissapointed and you definitely aren't out yet, but just assume the temp is correct & that AF is coming then anything other than that is great! I'm the worst at over thinking things and convincing myself that my chart/FF is wrong lol. I guess that's what happens when you've been trying for a while and you want it so bad! Not sure if you saw my question before but How long have you been trying?
That's the reason I'm going to stop charting after O has been confirmed. I hate watching my temps and getting stressed about it all during the TWW!

I'm an emotional wreck today! My friend just out up a pic on Facebook of their new 'family of 5' and I burst into tears!
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Oh :hugs: lucy xxx

I am positive you will get your new addition very soon hun x

And i am the same in the TWW!!!!! Chart/Temp obsessed - but even the last few days im almost forgetting to record it so obviously something has flicked over in my brain a little and gotten me to calm down a notch!!!
 
Ok pammy! Have you considered seeing your GP? If you've been trying for 12mo ths they usually like to check there's nothing obvious going on preventing pregnancy!
We're on our 9th cycle of actively trying, but we haven't used contraception and have regular bd'ing since Maggie was born. (she's now 18months) but breast feeding worked as very good contracpetion for me!
 
That's great newbie...I have days where I feel really relaxed and happy for it to happen whenever - like yesterday! But then something sparks in me and I get frustrated and sad again! I know I kind of need to 'stop trying' so to speak but I don't even know how that looks...I'm guessing something like, no charting, sex whenever, closing my eyes when I go to the loo & wear a tampon all month so I don't know what my CM is doing! I've trained myself to be so 'in tune' with my fertile signs now that I don't know how I'll ever forget/ignore them!
 
LLPM said:
That's great newbie...I have days where I feel really relaxed and happy for it to happen whenever - like yesterday! But then something sparks in me and I get frustrated and sad again! I know I kind of need to 'stop trying' so to speak but I don't even know how that looks...I'm guessing something like, no charting, sex whenever, closing my eyes when I go to the loo & wear a tampon all month so I don't know what my CM is doing! I've trained myself to be so 'in tune' with my fertile signs now that I don't know how I'll ever forget/ignore them!
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BAHAHAHAHAH at wearing a tampon all month.

i havent charted or monitored my cp or cm all month either...having said that, realising now that I am on CD 9 and getting close to O will probably chuck all that patience and calmness and serentity out the window!!!

Maybe i will go check now :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
 
Haha! It's kind of hard to ignore CM I reckon! Yep I did the same, didn't compare charts or anything till I'm this close to O, and now I've turned into a crazy 'fertile signs' watcherer!!
 
lol

Chart :coolio:

Fertile signs :coolio:

Man - its a wonder we have time in our lives for anything else with TTC!!!!

xx
 
My partner is not ready for full on TTC so I will be getting my progesterone and ov check by my doc this month if I am not Preg. I might get my tubes and etc. checked as well. When thats all done if I don't have PCOS I will ask DH when he wants to start TTC to get a SA.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart


https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10769;467/st/20120718/o/25/l/39/dt/12/k/f3d3/ttc.png


https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345957200z8z24z2z10.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
 
Newbie32 said:
Heya squigley!

Ok,ive just caught up now. Id like to know why it seems like this thread has now gone from being a sickly thread, to being an egg shy thread. All of you SHY eggs need to get out here NOW!!!!! Its lovely that you're all so nice and comfy in your ovaries up there, but the newsflash is that there are some sexy little spermies waiting for you just outside in the corridor wanting to take you to a MUCH nicer, cosier place! So come and play!!!!

Im not going to comment on everything that ive missed or i'll have an essay here that goes for more than a page of the thread but at least I now know whats going on with everyone!!!

I am very glad its friday today! I got up at 5am and went for a good cycle in the dark through the national park and up a few climbs - was great fun although i freaked myself out with the shadows and nearly crashed trying to avoid riding over a mouse or something that ran accross my path!!! BAHAHAHAHAHA

Does anyone have any exciting plans for the weekend? Lots of cycling for me! (boring old :jo: that i am ;))

THanks squigley! Funny this month, because of all the things that ive started planning for over the next 6 months or so, i feel like the urgency has been taken out of TTC and i feel way calmer about it,and much more like 'it will happen when it will happen' rather than 'it must happen now'!!! Which is good i think!!

DH at dinner last night was talking about what we would do if it turned out that he had NO viable swimmers at all, as in worst possible case etc etc, and said he would never want to get donor sperm, would only look to adopt...he said it would be no different for him that way anyway. I pointed out would be pretty different for me, and he kinda said tough!!! hmmm...not sure how that makes me feel...have any of you guys had that chat to your other halves? Ive always seen the whole carrying and growing the baby thing as such an important part - and i dont know if i could go without that by choice!!!!

Anyways, better get on with it eh!

Love love love xxx
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yeah I think you might need to talk him out of that one - it's not fair that if he has a low sperm count you don't get to experience pregnancy - that sounds like it's a bit mean to make you miss out too just so that he isn't the only one. I loved being pregnant especially once I was a few months into it. Many people have a terrible time of it - I was lucky and didn't
 
LLPM said:
It's a frustrating place to be Pammy! I hate those days close to when AF is due. I don't want you to be dissapointed and you definitely aren't out yet, but just assume the temp is correct & that AF is coming then anything other than that is great! I'm the worst at over thinking things and convincing myself that my chart/FF is wrong lol. I guess that's what happens when you've been trying for a while and you want it so bad! Not sure if you saw my question before but How long have you been trying?
That's the reason I'm going to stop charting after O has been confirmed. I hate watching my temps and getting stressed about it all during the TWW!

I'm an emotional wreck today! My friend just out up a pic on Facebook of their new 'family of 5' and I burst into tears!
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(hugs)
it sucks, eh, makes you feel like saying why do they get it and I don't. Life is a bit unfair somethings sweetie XO
 
Pammy31 said:
My partner is not ready for full on TTC so I will be getting my progesterone and ov check by my doc this month if I am not Preg. I might get my tubes and etc. checked as well. When thats all done if I don't have PCOS I will ask DH when he wants to start TTC to get a SA.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart


https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10769;467/st/20120718/o/25/l/39/dt/12/k/f3d3/ttc.png


https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345957200z8z24z2z10.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
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I don't want to dip into your personal life too much Pammy, but can I ask why you are TTC if he's not fully onboard with it? A baby is a HUGE life change, beyond what you think, and if he's not ready it will be harder! If you want his help/support once baby is born he needs to be wanting it now too! I understand that you really want a baby, and I'm sure i would have been heartbroken if liam told me he wasn't ready for kids when I felt ready! What are his reasons for not wanting a baby now? Don't answer if it's too personal, just interested! :)
 
Thanks number2, I love that I can come on here and tell you girls how I'm feeling and you genuinely understand, as opposed to those that say "I understand" when actually they have no idea!
 
I found out yesterday that a girl at work is pregnant again. She had her first the same time I had mine. She's also a bit of an ogre. Without thinking I just blurted out "What? She's pregnant? How is that fair!". Ah, whoops. I should just THINK these things not verbalise them! So yeah, I really totally do get it.
 
LLPM said:
Pammy31 said:
I don't want to dip into your personal life too much Pammy, but can I ask why you are TTC if he's not fully onboard with it? A baby is a HUGE life change, beyond what you think, and if he's not ready it will be harder! If you want his help/support once baby is born he needs to be wanting it now too! I understand that you really want a baby, and I'm sure i would have been heartbroken if liam told me he wasn't ready for kids when I felt ready! What are his reasons for not wanting a baby now? Don't answer if it's too personal, just interested! :)
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He is aware that not preventing (which he wants) will probably result one day in a baby. I am not pushing him for sex. I don't make him BD on ov days. I only chart more so to know if I ovulate. I am not too worried if AF comes along but DH knows I would love a child. I want to know more about my body.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart


https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10769;467/st/20120718/o/25/l/39/dt/12/k/f3d3/ttc.png


https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345957200z8z24z2z10.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
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Hey I just went to the toilet and I have bright red blood... hmm!! no cramps, still have sore breasts, acne breakout. WTF!! I have a small acne breakout 7 days before AF cramping 2 to 3 days before AF and hard belly still? I am super confused... no clots atm... whats going on???

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3e81a3/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart


https://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/0;1;10769;467/st/20120718/o/25/l/39/dt/12/k/f3d3/ttc.png


https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tickers/testing-1345957200z8z24z2z10.png

TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie
 
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