Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Mum 2 Quigley]

hahaha that's funny...smooth talker! lol Can you imagine if someone said that to you in a bar...you would be like 'what the f***' but it's so sweet in your current situation! lol

I had a night like that early this week before DH went away...was really nice...and bloody GREAT sex!!! hahaha only awkward part was that (TMI) I had some spotting after, so had to change the sheets but then was like ''ooohhh lots of people spot in early pregnancy! woo hoo!" hahaha

Oh dear...I can't believe how much I overshare on this website. sorry girls! haha

DH said a couple of weeks ago something about it feeling like we only ever have sex to make a baby, I got upset & cried. lol I think he's the same...a bit clueless about when I'm ovulating etc...so when I'm horny (which is pretty much all the time like you Melainey haha) he just assumes it's baby making sex lol So it was especially nice that he knew that the other night was just about us.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Ok... so had a look on google and found this site...

https://www.babycenter.com/101_what-cervical-mucus-looks-like-through-your-cycle_10351429.bc

The pics are a bit TMI but helpful... I'm thinking watery?

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Ladies, I have a TMI question about CM....

today my spotting has cleared up completely. When I check my CM internally, it is clear, and none comes out on my finger (like a thin layer coats it, but there isn't much at all) so I'm just wondering if I call this 'dry' or 'wet' ...it's sort of slippery, but I feel dry throughout the day, and I assume that being 'dry' doesn't actually mean that it is dry like your skin would be, but more like your mouth after you swallow??

sorry for the TMI...just wondering what to call it. lol

Had the same issue, and I noticed the same type of cm a few days before I got so yay maybe!!!! (TMI- the day after that cm you're describing I was so swollen internally I couldn't even check, not even a pinky would get up there, and haven't tried since) I think I did record mine as watery even though it wasn't super watery ,(went back and forth between that and dry), but it wasnt dry per say, nor sticky, nor egg white, nor creamy. Don't know if that is helpful, ahaha.

that would be epic! I have been a bit 'tight' too... hard to get in there, it's strange too, I feel a bit swollen, but slippery, but it's just dry...if that makes sense. lol I suppose it's just hard to imagine a 'dry vagina'...wouldn't be too comfortable I imagine... hahaha

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Ok... so had a look on google and found this site...

https://www.babycenter.com/101_what-cervical-mucus-looks-like-through-your-cycle_10351429.bc

The pics are a bit TMI but helpful... I'm thinking watery?

you really are an angel!

I think watery too.. that's exactly like it... cheers big ears!

 

[Pammy31]

waiting for my man to finish work. i am so getting worked up i said to him we are gonna bd tonight whether or not you want to. i honestly think i am oving really really soon. tender and slight cramps on the left. fxed.

 

[Melainey]

I have been sharing a lot with you guys too but I love sharing hehehehehe
I feel very close to you ladies for some reason which is weird but great I can't stay away from this site and I am so much happier I think it is because in my current location I do not have many friend so spend alot of time alone when DH is not around and you guys make me feel Wanted hehehe

It is hilarious tho how clueless the men can get

At the moment I have Michael Kackson BLARING while Ido some cleaning so If I don't respond this is why

x

 

[Newbie32]

Gl pammy xx

Yeah I agree, I think dry is when nothing slimey at all (tmi!!!)

Opks getting darker, woohoo!!

Do any of you have thoughts of whether better to am or pm? Or indifferent? I've often wondered if has any affect on those little

Thoughts?

 

[Newbie32]

I agree with melainey and all of you!!!

Fab group of women here, diverse and different in so many ways but completely bonded by our joint goals!!!

Couldn't have found a nicer group to take this journey with!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Mum2Q- im hoping its a good a sign for you. "go down a metal slide on a hot day and you'll realize why foreplay is so important!" I understand what you're saying,
I also saw the website Angel posted awhile back it is TMI, but helpful!!
I do feel bad for the DH's, DF's, and male OH's sometimes, they feel used for their sperm and only needed on occasion, must be a terrible feeling!! But while "we're" trying to temp, chart, check cm, and focus on making a baby "we" forget to help them feel needed and loved and wanted all the time not just at OV time. (i know im not in that situation, but i very much get it) I sorta felt like that with our donor, no of course, but just calling and being like "ready to go in a cup?" Felt awful, and like I was using him, and in the end I was, hahaha, but still! Those poor DH's, now you all go and so something nice for them tonight, if your tight down there, use something else,

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Gl pammy xx

Yeah I agree, I think dry is when nothing slimey at all (tmi!!!)

Opks getting darker, woohoo!!

Do any of you have thoughts of whether better to am or pm? Or indifferent? I've often wondered if has any affect on those little

Thoughts?

I think I read somewhere that the eggs are release in the evening more likely, now that may be complete rubbish, so just in the morning, [afternoon,] and night!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Mum2Q- im hoping its a good a sign for you. "go down a metal slide on a hot day and you'll realize why foreplay is so important!" I understand what you're saying,
I also saw the website Angel posted awhile back it is TMI, but helpful!!
I do feel bad for the DH's, DF's, and male OH's sometimes, they feel used for their sperm and only needed on occasion, must be a terrible feeling!! But while "we're" trying to temp, chart, check cm, and focus on making a baby "we" forget to help them feel needed and loved and wanted all the time not just at OV time. (i know im not in that situation, but i very much get it) I sorta felt like that with our donor, no of course, but just calling and being like "ready to go in a cup?" Felt awful, and like I was using him, and in the end I was, hahaha, but still! Those poor DH's, now you all go and so something nice for them tonight, if your tight down there, use something else,

so so so so so so funny! hahahaha i just near wet myself laughing!!!!! hahahaha



as for BDing - just whenever suits you best I think.. I tend to think that if you can do it at a time when you don't have to get straight up, it's best if you can lay down for a bit after? but really...people get pregnant after drunken one inght stands all the time... so it's not like you can't get pregnant if you don't do it at the right time and do the right thing after it... just do what is good for you two.

 

[Pammy31]

i dont need foreplay.... my partner gets me wet really quick.... lol

 

[Newbie32]

Mum2Q- im hoping its a good a sign for you. "go down a metal slide on a hot day and you'll realize why foreplay is so important!" I understand what you're saying,
I also saw the website Angel posted awhile back it is TMI, but helpful!!
I do feel bad for the DH's, DF's, and male OH's sometimes, they feel used for their sperm and only needed on occasion, must be a terrible feeling!! But while "we're" trying to temp, chart, check cm, and focus on making a baby "we" forget to help them feel needed and loved and wanted all the time not just at OV time. (i know im not in that situation, but i very much get it) I sorta felt like that with our donor, no of course, but just calling and being like "ready to go in a cup?" Felt awful, and like I was using him, and in the end I was, hahaha, but still! Those poor DH's, now you all go and so something nice for them tonight, if your tight down there, use something else,

so so so so so so funny! hahahaha i just near wet myself laughing!!!!! hahahaha



as for BDing - just whenever suits you best I think.. I tend to think that if you can do it at a time when you don't have to get straight up, it's best if you can lay down for a bit after? but really...people get pregnant after drunken one inght stands all the time... so it's not like you can't get pregnant if you don't do it at the right time and do the right thing after it... just do what is good for you two.

Very true thanks girls, so easy to over think these things sometimes!!!!

 

[Pauls_angel]

I have been sharing a lot with you guys too but I love sharing hehehehehe
I feel very close to you ladies for some reason which is weird but great I can't stay away from this site and I am so much happier I think it is because in my current location I do not have many friend so spend alot of time alone when DH is not around and you guys make me feel Wanted hehehe

It is hilarious tho how clueless the men can get

At the moment I have Michael Kackson BLARING while Ido some cleaning so If I don't respond this is why

x

Melainey you are very much wanted in this group! I too have found this month way less stressful TTC because of all of your support and friendship and laughs... loving you all very much!

 

[Melainey]

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

I agree...I went off this site for a month as I was only on here for a month, but it made me obsess over EVERYTHING!!!!! now that I've found this group, it's more about the friendships, we can all talk about TTC and gross questions lol but it's mainly about catching up, so I don't spend time thinking up weird & wonderful questions that will get an answer. lol

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

hahaha trust you to have a little flasher in there!

ps...i agree with 2mums - your DH is cute! you look so suited! (and you're also hot hot hot!)

 

[Pauls_angel]

Loving that flasher! cracks me up every time!

Would post one of these holly but I wasn't bless with big enough boobies for it to actually represent me... Oh well!

 

[LLPM]

Loving that flasher! cracks me up every time!

Would post one of these holly but I wasn't bless with big enough boobies for it to actually represent me... Oh well!

Lol, me neither angel!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Loving that flasher! cracks me up every time!

Would post one of these holly but I wasn't bless with big enough boobies for it to actually represent me... Oh well!

Lol, me neither angel!

Me neither - I'm thinking pregnancy might brings on a couple of B's...If I'm lucky I may even crack a little C!! hahaha