Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[number2woohoo]

Yeap I am next in line to Ov - Just came back from checking my cervical position.

I really must track down a pictorial guide on just how to do that, I go "yep it's up there" but it feels the same every day.

Its only my second month and I think I am finally understand it But I go to the toilet about 10 times a day checking from CD 13 beacuse I normal O around 16 or 17.

I can just picture that. Thanks for the mental image. No, really, thanks.

 

[lisamfr]

We didnt find out with our first as we knew we were going to have a second some day. But I think this time around we will find out. Then I can work out if I can give away all the pink clothes and start buying blue. I have four boxes full of pink & other clour clothes running out of room.

 

[Trying2b2mums]

i hope it all works out for you, but better yet i hope you get duffers and can stuff the lot of you i'm going to work on making a human instead!!
angel- hoping you can find your dream soon, i agree - its not worth it to settle, wait and something amazing will find its way to you. And hope your pups are staying out of trouble in their new spot, can you at least visit at all? or does that make them more stressed?
excited for mum2q, lisa, and melainey, and of course any one else i missed, to make those sperms meet that egg!! we're on a roll and i reckon there's a few more bfps to show!
mum2q- we're too impatient, when we can we'll find out the gender. i'm a planner, need to know these things.

afm- everything is ok. Dr was great. did u/s immediately and i freaked out at first, couldnt see anything, no heartbeat, but that was because bub was moving!! Heart rate was good, and arms and legs were noticeable flailing around, almost looks human. So we're all good for now, but he wants us back in 10 days to make sure, bc there is still a chance something could go wrong, but only slight. So i feel so so much better. Can't say the same for OH, who is relieved, but in a lot of facial pain, looks like she'll be better than expected though, not completely broken, and no black eyes, just swollen, cut, and maybe slightly crooked but not sure yet! Hard not to freak out, i know its normal, the spotting, but was so worried bc it didnt stop and was so bright red. And it takes/took so much for us to make a baby, we cant just go try again- just the two of us, so that adds to my stress and nerves! Thanks for the support, sorry for freaking out!!!

 

[Newbie32]

2mums i am so glad to hear that the u/s went well....now put your feet up and relax and take it easy! We were so worried for you!

Now we just need number2's test results please, good ones. xx

Yeah Angel I think im gonna have a crack at it...ive called an employment lawyer (mentioned his name to my boss and he said he is about the best there is in Sydney, so a good start!!) and will see what they think. Im not going to fight it if i dont stand a good chance to win, but i know that just cos i think i have a good chance doesnt mean much!!!

But now that you mention, getting stressed out and delaying O would be GREAT for me this morning cos of my work travels! So maybe there is hope to o a few days later and have time for some bd!!!!

 

[Abby27]

Oh 2mums im really happy that its going ok! poor OH

can i ask a curious question if you guys did at home AI or through a clinic? no worries if its too personal, i was just talking to another lady who does at home AI as its a cheaper option...and another lady who does it when her husband isnt up for the task!

Nana! Goodness! just blatently they are breaking the law, as you know. Why do companies do this? so dumb. are you ok?

 

[Trying2b2mums]

abby- no such thing as too personal We did at home AI. 7 or 8 cycles last year, took a break from oct 11- july this year (went to the gym, ate better, lost weight, and just de stressed from the constant ttc) , worked first time back this july. As it turns out, good thing we did at home, bc apparently if there was medical intervention, such as IUI/IVF or anything, travel insurance is pretty much done for, i dont get it but thats what i've read.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

2mums, so glad to hear that you're ok and bub it settled in nicely!!! You guys must be relieved!

Abby 2mums put an awesome story up of her conception, will try to find it for you to read.

Nana, hope you stress out just enough to delay ov and then get Duffy and then work comes good for your pregnancy!

 

[LLPM]

Oh 2mums...so glad your bubba is ok! It's nice to know that if you're worried again your dr will look straight into it for you! fx'd no more bleeding! How many weeks are you now? Could it be 'breakthrough bleeding' as in would AF be due around now? Xx

 

[Melainey]

So happy that everything is ok And like nanna said .. PUT THOSE FEET UP xox

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Abby check out 2mums story, it's on page 253 & 254 of this thread - it's a great 3 part read! You might wanna get your popcorn & choc top! haha

 

[Melainey]

good work in finding it Squiggles Haha I would not have known where to start we talk that much

 

[lisamfr]

So glad to hear the outcome is good 2mums. I also hope OH is feeling a little better her poor noise.

 

[Trying2b2mums]

was thinking the same, no idea how you found that!!! love it!

lucy- DR had me 9w4d today. not AF time, thats normally dur last week of the month or first, he couldnt find a real reason, but also said that thats a good thing.

will put my feet up, but also in the mood to bake, lemon cookies, but super easy ones. Just hanging out, watching Friends, baking. Oh is trying to sleep off her headache!

abby- hope you enjoy that crazy read,

 

[Lisasmith]

Oh, thank goodness! You and your sweet other half need to rest up

 

[Newbie32]

Man, can i just say the one good thing about the witch getting me yesterday is that i can go home tonight and have a seriously well deserved, thorough drink or 10!!!

I am quite sure i must sound borderline alco already to you girls tho!!!

(EDIT: and yes, a cider or two wasnt ever going to cut it tonight!)

 

[Melainey]

Hahahah you deserve it When you start drinking a bottleof whiskey a day then I will intervene hehe

 

[Trying2b2mums]

have 2 for me, one for my stress this afternoon, and one for the stress my loud, annoying, barking little puppies this afternoon, actually one for each, so thats three for me!! enjoy!!

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Well ladies uncross everything AF has shown up and temps have gone down again
Congrats number 2 looking forward to hearing the confirmation later today

Sorry girls I am just gutted right now I was so convinced. I guess my baby boy Ethan just doesn't want to come to me. I have never had 28 day cycle only at Xmas when I travelled to oz to get married. I am not stressed life is good not sure why.

 

[Abby27]

was thinking the same, no idea how you found that!!! love it!

lucy- DR had me 9w4d today. not AF time, thats normally dur last week of the month or first, he couldnt find a real reason, but also said that thats a good thing.

will put my feet up, but also in the mood to bake, lemon cookies, but super easy ones. Just hanging out, watching Friends, baking. Oh is trying to sleep off her headache!

abby- hope you enjoy that crazy read,

I really did! thankyou so much for sharing!
We've actually considered the syringe method for the times when things are getting a bit too much pressure....like last cycle when i couldnt work out when i ovulated...day after day....thought it might take the pressure off if i had this as a back up plan....is that weird?

 

[Newbie32]

Oh kiwi i am so sorry. I was so hopeful for you.

It sounds as though your lp may have extended? Unless you actually o'd a bit later than you thought

darling xxx