I don't know how a lot of you would react to your step mum offering to come over and help you clean up your house? Me? i took the offer strait away, i have a 2yo, a horribly bad back and im struggling to keep ontop of it all, we only moved in here at the start of sept and i fell pregnant by the end, i was exhausted, and things took a long time to unpack, and even now a lot of it isnt arranged or where it should be, simply because i cannot do it on my own, with a 2yo, while my partner is a full time uni student. I found it really sweet that she'd try to help me, i mean every woman may be a bit embarrassed by the fact her house isnt perfect, but we all have reasons why its not, and it's not like we arnt bothered. I really cant wait to get it all done on thursday, i've been dieing to get it sorted out but i just cant do it alone.