My epis took 12weeks to heal last time, I feel you pain!
Huge hugs to those with feeding issues. My milk came in over night and I'm in agony as not BF'ing. I'm like you, MF and Jem, with other kids I have no idea how people do it. DS has issues when I'm holding her if he wants me, there's just no way I felt I could put everyone under pressure of wanting to feed her myself.
It is perfectly normal for BF babies to eat all the time for a while though, another thing I couldn't face, they do this to get your supply up.
Matilda has been a slower feeder but is starting to wake up a bit more now,
I actually got 8hours sleep last night which felt amazing. She fed at 10 then went til 4am, DS woke at 4.15 so I jumped in with him and eventually nodded back off til 7
not expecting this to last at all...