I've told my sister, my 2 best friends, my dh. And two ladies at work. One lady at work is like my grandma, I even call her Grammy lady and we are very close. the other lady is kind of our lead and handles the scheduling and vacation request, etc. we really aren't that close, we get along fine but different personalities or whatever if it's non work we had nothing to talk about. last time I was prego, I tested at work and I was so shocked by the bfp I just blurted out to her. when I had the mc she was so wonderfully supportive and I was really surprised. same thing happened with her first baby before she had her son and daughter. I think she probably helped me the most, so she was actually the first person I told after dh. that and I had to request to leave early to have it confirmed at the ob. lol. And she has been so sweet and checking on me the last week. funny how a loss can forge a new friendship with someone I've known for years.
we have our first scan in two weeks. I can't decide if we will tell the in laws then, or tell both families together at xmas eve since both of our families get together at my aunt's. I seriously have the world's best inlaws, and they are a small bunch so my huge family has pulled them right in.
we were actually traveling with dh' parents to see the aunts, uncles, and cousins when I mc before. fun vacation there! and I'm really close to his mom. we were barely dating when she had heard my mom had died the year before, and said oh well you need a mother. She has worried about me and loved me since then, even though she still took awhile to decide if I was good enough for her son. lol. I'd love to tell them at thanksgiving, but want to wait to hear the heartbeat. I have a feeling I might cave and tell them sooner than xmas. They were so sad about the mc before though that I'll feel bad if I tell them too early and they have to go through that again.