Hi ladies, I just came on to post this....It made me smile and I thought you would like it! I was looking on a fertility site and found this....
"I would say to the woman, get a lot less involved with your career, this is not the emotional focus of your life any more – your future family is. Get to know as many babies as you can, and spend time, where possible, playing with them. Stimulate your maternal feelings to get all the right juices flowing. Make up your mind you will stay with the baby and look after him/her when s/he arrives. The messages get through. The more love there is waiting, the more likely the ova is to feel confident enough to take the plunge.
Get well. Eat well. Eliminate the VOSPs, the hormonal drugs, the allergens, gut bugs, any heavy metal such as lead or mercury. Make sure the electromagnetic background is positive, and there are no particularly noxious chemicals around.
Then say to your baby, “I am ready for you, I want you and I love you”.
Do not believe the people who say, “Do not think too much about the baby, if you think about it, you will get stressed, this will stop it all happening.” How stressful is THAT!
People come to me in a complete misery saying “I know I must stop thinking about it, but I just CAN’T! It is all I think about all day!”.
I say to them, “How lovely you love him/her so much already. S/he will be so pleased. Think about him/her as much as you can! It will help him/her to make it!” You can hear the release as they say “Oh, do you really think so! Oh how wonderful!”
Women must be allowed to be the sex they are. Everything needs to flow freely. They are not little maladapted men! They must love and enjoy and laugh and cry, and dream of what they will."
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