Honestly Twinks - what is WRONG with these husbands of ours, eh?! I'd be FURIOUS if I were you, esp as he has lazy swimmers. Is he taking vits? And cystitis sounds painful - I've not had it myself (god knows how with all the bonking whilst TTC!) but I did have kidney problems which made weeing really hard, having to go often with nothing coming out. It didn't hurt/sting though which I guess is the most annoying thing? Drink lots of cranberry juice chick, but I'm sure you already knew that (it worked with helping my kidneys a bit). Big

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