ThinkPositiv
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OMG I have been AWOL from baby and bump for a few days and was so excited to see this thread!
Congrats to you Thinkpositiv, I am so pleased you will have a baby in time for the family Christmas you were talking about last week. It's so good to know sometimes things work out! Have you told DH yet I bet he was thrilled?
Anyway I wanted to bolt on my news.... I got my BFP this morning! I can't believe it I'm still shaking! Im not sure what went on as I am CD42 today so I'm now really confused as to when I o'vd. I got BFN's with ICs on CD30 through CD36 and then took a FRER on CD36 which was also neg. So was really depressed and thought I was out, and since I was working all through the weekend I didn't test again or go on internet.
First day off work yesterday and so I did an IC with FMU and thought if I squinted there might be a line but it was so faint when I kept looking it disappeared. So didn't think anything of it. Did another IC this morning with FMU and could see weird faint patch tried to take picture but didn't come out. I was wondering if I'd encountered the infamous evap (never seen an evap before). So did second IC and saw patch in same place. Getting suspicious now so decide to break out the big guns and "waste" a FRER..... 30 seconds in.... 2 lines its not faint its obvious.... OMG OMG nearly threw up in toilet. Ok keep calm, tried to unwrap a clearblue but hands properly shaking. Clear blue says the magic words PREGNANT 1-2 WEEKS.
I haven't told anyone yet thought I would share it with you guys first as this forum has helped me so much through difficult times. Will tell DP when he gets home from work. I know to be cautious this time after MC in Dec, but at the moment Im determined to just enjoy this and hopefully it will last!
Congrats to all other BFPs on this thread and GL and dust to all the ladies still waiting.
I will post my list of symptoms in a bit so that we can all symptom spot.
Hey! I was missing you! But I come and go too depending on work (I work 12 hour shifts...at the end I just crash!). But, first things first, CONGRATS on the GREAT news! I am SOOOOOOO excited for you! I knew you were pregnant - your symtoms were just so positive looking! You must be over the moon! I remember once you gave up home on a 2012 baby....esp since we both have crazy long cycles..... I bet you can't wait for the november baby now! woot woot!
yes, I am equally thrilled! oddly enough, depite bashing internet cheapies, it was using one of these on the 7th that tipped me off.....then I used a FRER but the line was BARELY there....not a squinter, but I didnt beleive it!
I too did a digital clear blue - the conception indicator is just that - from time of conception....so basically shortly after O.
I looked at your symtoms, and I peg your ovulation day as CD28-29..... for me, sensitive nipples immediatley follow O day.....and that would mean your BFP was on 12-13 DPO...which totally makes sense.
Dont stress about O'ing late! LOTS of women have long cycles and get pregnant and have healthy happy pregnancies... I O'd on day 31 and am feeling really good about this bean sticking! We only did the deed once....the day before O...so I am confident we had a fresh egg and good strong fresh sperm in there!
Dangermouse99 - welcome! this has been a good thread for positives! Your symptoms sound promising. Keep us posted on the testing results!
Hey Thinkpositiv, this is just so exciting... it's weird how we seem to be on the same path! I dunno bout you but I'm just gonna make the most of it this time but I have a good feeling that everything is falling in to place now!
It's weird how a week ago we were symptom spotting and you were just so chilled and positive and think that is often the key to success!
Thanks for your feedback on the Ov date that makes sense. So I have been fiddling with a calculator and it should be mid November I guess which is awesome cos its just before my 31st birthday woohoo.
When do you calculate your due date to be??
I have to say Im not impressed by the ICs on the whole. Ok so when I got the BFNs they wernt ambiguous they were just clear white no hint. But the BFPs I got this morning were so weedy and faint that if I was a novice I would have said BFN! I might upload a pic actually to illustrate how bad they were.
Don't tire yourself out with too many 12 hour shifts! You need to chill for the next 9 months lol!
hey! yes, this is super exciting for the both of us. I used the calulator on
https://pregnancy.about.com/cs/pregnancycalendar/l/blpregcalc.htm
and it came up with the same date as my doctor, which is november 16! I know when I O'd and since my cycles are long though (didn't O till day 31) I counted back 2 weeks from my O date and entered that as the first day of my last menstural period.... Doctors date the pregnancy from the first day of your last menstural cycle....but they also assume most women O 14 days after the first day of their menstural cycle........Anyways, I am having a early dating scan because my periods are irregular, but I am confident my date is fairly accurate because I used ovulation tests....but could still be off my a day or 2, but not by 2 weeks which it would be if he used the actual first day of my last menstural cycle!
yeah, i am not impressed with internet cheapies either! like you said, if I was a novice I would have thought the very, very faint shadow I saw was nothing...but I knew I was pregnant because I had that feeling...and the next day I pulled out the big guns, just like you, and yup, I was!
i am not sure how my shifts will go this week - i will go in tomorrow and see how I do, but honestly, yesterday after a 10 hour sleep I took 2 naps and was exhausted again by 8pm! the fatigue is certainly hitting me hard!