Gemmamumof2
mummy of 2 ttc 3rd x
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no - and he's 4 almost 5!!
My partner is all he knows... his sperm donar is not even fit to even be called that.. and my partner and his family are brilliant with him,
I'm not sure when is right time... I dont mind when he's older and can handle whatever happens to know and go and find out more, but at moment i feel hes still a child and dont want his head to be messed with...my ex is on birth certificate and scared everytime i get mail incase its a solicitor letter and hes changed his mind!!..
I know since hes had another son and done exact same thing... however he sees him at access centre...
my exs mum had ALOT to do with it she wasnt right in the head she was an overbearing parent - loads went off she basically wanted my baby!
My partner is all he knows... his sperm donar is not even fit to even be called that.. and my partner and his family are brilliant with him,
I'm not sure when is right time... I dont mind when he's older and can handle whatever happens to know and go and find out more, but at moment i feel hes still a child and dont want his head to be messed with...my ex is on birth certificate and scared everytime i get mail incase its a solicitor letter and hes changed his mind!!..
I know since hes had another son and done exact same thing... however he sees him at access centre...
my exs mum had ALOT to do with it she wasnt right in the head she was an overbearing parent - loads went off she basically wanted my baby!