Billy No Mates Rant

Discussion in 'General Chatter' started by Mumof42009, Apr 10, 2009.

  1. Mumof42009

    Mumof42009 Mum Of 4 Preemie's

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    Im going to sound really sad now. I am a really nice person down to earth caring and always go out my way for people but havent got no proper friends someone whos there when need a shoulder to cry on or just need a friend to chat to. I never feel welcome when i go on forums like this what is wrong with me? is it i try too hard? sorry rant over now.:cry:
     
  2. colsy

    colsy Mummy to 2 li'l pudd'ns

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    Well, I will welcome you right now, to stop you feeling unwelcome! What trimester are you in? When you due? xx
     
  3. Anababe

    Anababe Well-Known Member

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    Aww hun dont feel your not welcome here! Of course you are. You know, i dont have many actual friends either, not ones that are worth calling friends anyway. Most of the 'friends' i do have are on here, and i reemember when i first joined it took a while to feel welcome but i soon settled in and now have some wonderful friends here that i feel so glad i met! PM e if you ever want to chat, your only a week behind me so we are at similar places in our pregnancy. :hug:

    xxx
     
  4. caz81

    caz81 Well-Known Member

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    im going to welcome you too:hug: xx
     
  5. Jkelmum

    Jkelmum Well-Known Member

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    Hey hun we,ve spoke on here b4 if u ever need to rant i am here ....I know what u mean in real life i have no real friends :hugs:
     
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    PrincessSoph Well-Known Member

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  7. embo216

    embo216 Mummy to 3 <3

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    Oh hun Welcome to the forum. I'm in the same boat as you. Sometimes being new here can be a little overwhelming but I'm sure you'll make some great friends on here just like I have. xxx
     
  8. Mumof42009

    Mumof42009 Mum Of 4 Preemie's

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    Thanks to you all just feeling down today i lost all my mates when got with oh as many didnt agree with mixed relationships they was ok to your face but behind your back chatting about me. I have friends at college and work but no one i would sit there and open upto. Im due 26th oct if i get that far having problems already so isnt looking good thanks again for making me feel better xx
     
  9. Rach276

    Rach276 Well-Known Member

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    I dont have any friends where I live, I moved here 2 years ago and still a loner lol. I have friends from where I used to live but see them every 4 months or so. I dont even really have friends on the forum tbh lol. We shall be friends if you wish :D
     
  10. moomin_troll

    moomin_troll mummy to zane and corey

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    I dont have many ffiends anymore i lost alot of ppl who i thought were friends when i got pregnant. ive now had to move to a army barracks so im by myself well with zane all the time and feel very lonely but this forum has always made me feel very welcome.

    you will make some good friends here :)
     
  11. baby.love

    baby.love Guest

    Oh sweetie HUGE :hugs: I know what you mean though, i dont have many friends where i live and feel like a loner in everyday life and online. But i am always here if you want a natter.

    PM me your msn if you want, i am generally about if you wanna have a girly gossip or a general chat/rant... :hugs: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  12. Mumof42009

    Mumof42009 Mum Of 4 Preemie's

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    Im trying to set my msn up as soon as its sorted will give you my msn addy thanks so much ladies xx
     
  13. Eoz

    Eoz Mummy of 5! Eeek!

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    Aww hugs babe.I know where you're coming from.I do all I can for people but when I needed help last week it really opened my eyes so politely told them to bugger off.I'm now happy with family and my comp! Chat away hun.When you get msn add me. xxxxxxx
     
  14. Mumof42009

    Mumof42009 Mum Of 4 Preemie's

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    My msn is [email protected]
    Its hard cause even with the people at college i help them so much never get the thanks for it, its slapped me back in the face really cause caused me to fail 2 assignments so lesson learnt there! xx
     
  15. baby.love

    baby.love Guest

    Have added you hun xxx
     
  16. Anababe

    Anababe Well-Known Member

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    Ive added you hun xx
     
  17. babycake69

    babycake69 Well-Known Member

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    I know exactly how you feel! I have one person who I thought was a friend but she only calls when she wants something! She comes to mine and just leaves her baby with me while she gets on with stuff but when I want to talk she is not interested! I hope you are ok hun! xx
     
  18. MummyMummy

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    i don't have any friends either *shrug* i don't get much time to socialise with having a 3year old to look after. the people i used to be friends with just disapeared when i waspreg with 1st son... surprise surprise. it doesn't really bother me as my mr.man is my best friend but some times i feel like such a looser saying i have no friends :\ alot of people are in their cliques already becausethey have been on here longer than us, but i'm sure the more you post/people see your name/more youtalk about yourself you will notice people keeping up with you.like in real life friendships takea while to form :)

    xXx
     

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