Winter Belle
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Hi all,
I recently read an article in the daily mail written by a male obstetrician (sp?) about why husbands and partners should not be present at the birth of the child. I have always felt that I didn't want my OH present at the birth, partly because he is useless in hospitals! and partly because I think he would never look at me as attractive ever again (probably a misjudgement of him though). Because of these reasons I don't think I could relax enough with him there. Additionally he doesn't want to be there either so it is mutually agreed!
Similarly i wouldn't want my mum there either as she is extremely squeamish and not good in anxious/traumatic situations. she had all three of her children by C section under general anaesthetic and only ever had one contraction so I think she would also be more of a hinderence... *sorry mum!*
I am thinking of asking one of two friends who have had children and I know they are both good in emergency situations..
TBH though I would rather do it alone with the midwives present as I think i would be more comfortable.. although I would want friends there if complications arose.
So this got me wondering..who do you want as your birthing partner and why?
Thanks for reading
Love and Light
Winter
xxxx
P.S This is a link to the article I read ..
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-559913/A-obstetrician-men-NEVER-birth-child.html
I recently read an article in the daily mail written by a male obstetrician (sp?) about why husbands and partners should not be present at the birth of the child. I have always felt that I didn't want my OH present at the birth, partly because he is useless in hospitals! and partly because I think he would never look at me as attractive ever again (probably a misjudgement of him though). Because of these reasons I don't think I could relax enough with him there. Additionally he doesn't want to be there either so it is mutually agreed!
Similarly i wouldn't want my mum there either as she is extremely squeamish and not good in anxious/traumatic situations. she had all three of her children by C section under general anaesthetic and only ever had one contraction so I think she would also be more of a hinderence... *sorry mum!*
I am thinking of asking one of two friends who have had children and I know they are both good in emergency situations..
TBH though I would rather do it alone with the midwives present as I think i would be more comfortable.. although I would want friends there if complications arose.
So this got me wondering..who do you want as your birthing partner and why?
Thanks for reading
Love and Light
Winter
xxxx
P.S This is a link to the article I read ..
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-559913/A-obstetrician-men-NEVER-birth-child.html