lady_p
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Hi it's me again posting a lot today
I have a small daytime wedding with only our mums, dads, siblings, grandparents and I picked one of my best friends and her 2 girls to be bridesmaids.
The rest of the guests are invited to celebrate at night time and will all get a beautiful buffet with little steak pies each and lots of other stuff. I have said people can come to the church if they want or not it's no big drama to me. I just can't afford to feed them all haha.
If I make my wedding any bigger than that I can't afford to get married as I have a very big extended family.
So here is me thinking everyone is happy - nope! One of my childhood friends thinks she should be the bridesmaid and has totally cut me off because I didn't. Deleted me off facebook and everything. Apparently me not asking her means I don't give a crap about her and the fact that she is welcome at the church is not good enough she wants to be at the dinner too!
I am trying to explain that I haven't done anything out of badness just what I can afford. I also think if I invite her other people will wonder why they are not invited too.
I officially hate wedding politics! Thanks if you got this far.
PS prior to this she hasn't even met my 3 month old daughter!
I have a small daytime wedding with only our mums, dads, siblings, grandparents and I picked one of my best friends and her 2 girls to be bridesmaids.
The rest of the guests are invited to celebrate at night time and will all get a beautiful buffet with little steak pies each and lots of other stuff. I have said people can come to the church if they want or not it's no big drama to me. I just can't afford to feed them all haha.
If I make my wedding any bigger than that I can't afford to get married as I have a very big extended family.
So here is me thinking everyone is happy - nope! One of my childhood friends thinks she should be the bridesmaid and has totally cut me off because I didn't. Deleted me off facebook and everything. Apparently me not asking her means I don't give a crap about her and the fact that she is welcome at the church is not good enough she wants to be at the dinner too!
I am trying to explain that I haven't done anything out of badness just what I can afford. I also think if I invite her other people will wonder why they are not invited too.
I officially hate wedding politics! Thanks if you got this far.
PS prior to this she hasn't even met my 3 month old daughter!