Bumpkins & Babies Chat Thread

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Hello just wanted to say "hi" :flower:

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Anyway, unfortunately she was diagnosed with colic and reflux, put on medication and had a very rare, serious allergic reaction. Her skin blistered, burnt and peeled, she stopped BF and was generally very ill. I was told to supplement with formula which made her really poorly, only to find out she has a milk allergy too. To make matters worse she wouldn't take a bottle at all and I had to syringe feed her for weeks :wacko:

Thankfully all is well now although we have just been through a horrendous time with separation anxiety, stranger anxiety and her first two teeth all at once. It was horrific for a while. I still can't leave her to go to the loo or anything. She also had the "stranges" with my DH of all people and he couldn't go anywhere near her :nope:

Have your LO's been through separation anxiety yet and if so how long does it last?

Hello megewansmum :flower: Nice to 'meet' you. Sounds like you've had some tough times. Our Monty comes and goes with the separation anxiety. He has a habit of crying when anybody leaves the room, even if he is still with somebody (whether it's me or OH or whoever). So far he is pretty good with going to other people. This might be because of our parenting set-up -- basically OH and I do half work, half childcare each, so Monty gets to spend equal amounts of time with both of us -- so it's not just mummy all day, as it is with some people.

Re teeth - his bottom two middle ones came through almost overnight and we thought teething was a doddle. Ha ha ha, what did we know?! He now has the next bottom two plus FIVE at the top coming through all at once, and TBH he is quite a grump at the moment. He is fine when he is super-amused, so basically when there is lots going on, at parent/baby groups, out for a walk, etc. ... but it's a long shot as to whether we can pop him down on the floor to amuse himself - most the time he'll suddenly remember his teeth hurt, shove his fist in his mouth and yell until we pick him up or play with him - at which point he forgets the pain and carries on smiling again.

Re the early days - we had colic, horrible horrible horrible, wouldn't wish it on ANYBODY, so much harder work than any of the books tell you, and I used to HATE how doctors and nurses use the term 'only colic'. Actually, no, when it's your own baby it isn't ONLY at all, thank you very much. Anyway, we fortunately didn't have the complications that you had, so on that front I can only send you :hugs: and hope that everything is getting heaps better for you now.

Nice to see a new Bumpkin in here, anyhow. Stick around!
 
will be back later on but just found out my OH is leaving me!
 
will be back later on but just found out my OH is leaving me!

:hugs: Jo. Is this a shock or kind of expected? Either way, I hope you sort things out for the best :flower: Gosh, there's quite a few Bumpkins now who've been through break-ups recently. I honestly think having a baby puts a huge strain on the relationship -- me and OH most definitely have our ups and downs.
 
Hi all

Colsy the odd bottle shouldn't affect your supply now. When i've been poorly or delayed at the hospital my mum has opened a carton of formula (she sometimes forgets the EBM in the freezer) and my supply has been fine. I must admit Noah isn't that fussed on it. He takes a bottle of ebm fine but puts up a bit of fuss at formula.

I didn't have many periods between them starting and falling pregnant again :blush: I am now n the time frame for milk to change back to colostrum though so im worried he'll get fussy.

I have noticed I can feel his teeth now when he feeds (dreading him biting me)
 
Littlekitten- wow, that's great how advanced James is! No stopping him now hun! How's everythig with your man (sorry i forgot his name) & work? I really do admire you for working as much as you do in quite a high pressure job- there is no way on earth I would be able to cope.

Kte- Go Chloe with the crawling! :happydance: Sorry to hear your fissure is back- that royally sucks I can imagine. Is there anything they can do to help it, or is it one of those things you just have to wait to heal up & hope for the best?

Colsy- Harry will have a go at pretty much anything food wise that is put in front of him, however he still has days where he just gums it, rather than swallowing. I try not to worry though, because I'd rather he played & was interested in it in some form than not touch it at all, iykim? As for periods & BFing, I still haven't had one, so cant help on that one, lol.

Bingers- how's little Phoebe doing?

Megewansmum :hi: nice to see you here hun :hugs: Re the separation anxiety. Harry doesn't really care whether I leave him or not... His big thing at the moment is 'strangers' in his territory. Whenever someone enters our house (even family) he totally freaks out, cries & demands to be picked up... about 10 mins later he's fine & dandy & will be all over them, but that initial 'who are you & what do you want with me & why are you in my house' thing really unsettles him & it takes him a while to realise who they are & that they're not gonna hurt him. But out & about, he's perfectly fine with strangers, which is a bit weird I thought?

Chaos, sorry to hear Autumn is feeling so poorly. :hugs: I hope she gets better soon. :flower:

Jo: what the feck???!!!! What has Nick gone & done? Is he leaving you leaving you? Or threatening to? Or being a male twat or what?

Maffie: oooh, I never realised the milk switched to colostrum so early in the pregnancy. Learn something new everyday!

Kaites, do you speak French? random, Q I know, but just wondered!



Well, harry got weighed for the month. He's now 17lbs 11oz, still everything on the 9th (bout half way between the 9th & 25th centile now, so I'm happy) & he has finally gone into 6-9month clothing (apart from trousers which he's still in 3-6 for coz of his short legs, lol). We've got a checkup with the nurse at our new surgury on monday, so I'm guessing they'll probably do all his measurements again or something then too? Dvelopmentally, he's still not 'properly' crawling, but man is he quick with his own little version of it. He is really into pulling himself up on everything at them moment too, but then lets go & crashes backwards like he thinks he will just be able to stand there without falling, lol. Scares the living crap outta me most of the time. I want to follow him round with a pillow, lol!

anyways, better go finish dinner before OH gets home for the weekend :)
 
Hi Colsy - Monty sounds like he's really go through it with the amount of teeth all coming through at once. Megan seems to go through bouts of horrendousness from time to time. She's fussy from the minute she wakes until the minute she goes to bed some days. She doesn't want to be put down some mornings and I end up walking around with her just to stop her whining. There's no sign of anymore teeth though so I don't know what it is :shrug: She hasn't started crawling yet so I think alot of it is frustration. Hopefully she'll start soon and I'll be forced into babyproofing quickly :haha:

She's also not eating much either. Due to her low weight I decided to go down the TW route with finger foods rather than BLW as I thought she might eat more. Anyway you can measure her intake now in teaspoons not tablespoons unless its soy yoghurt or avocado (her favourites!) Her milk intake is also pretty low at only 10-12oz a day!!! Quite worrying really and she won't drink water either. The pediatrician didn't seem too concerned at her last visit as she's gaining slowly but steadily and just said that she'll have what she needs so I'm trying not to worry. She has her 9 month check at the doctors next Tuesday so I'll mention it then and see what she has to say. I've been unsure whether to drop a bottle or not as sometimes she only has 1oz out of it but I'm worried that she needs all the ozs she can get.

We've also had a nightmare with her sleeping until we decided in desparation to try Sleepsense after nearly 6 months of 5 -10 wakings a night. Our worst night was a record breaking 15 wakings! :cry: Now she does STTN but is still pretty defiant sometimes going down for her naps. Can't wait until she's only on one a day. I hate them. They are so limiting. I'm supposed to be starting at a playgroup in September with her but the times are 9am and 1.30pm which both coincide with her naps so not sure which would be better. I'm tempted to go for the earlier one as I guess she'll be dropping that nap in a few months anyway.

Oh...regarding your milk supply and BF with the odd formula thrown in; the public health nurse told me that you need to pump 6 times in a 24 hour period to maintain your supply. I've been pumping for 5 months now and its certainly worked for me. I pump when I wake, during first nap and before I go to bed and (touchwood) its fine.

Jo_79 - OMG...I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you will be ok. My OH had a really bad time at the beginning and couldn't bond at all with LO due to all the crying and stuff and we went through a bit of a bad time but he came round probably around 6 months though. I agree that having a baby certainly puts a huge strain on your relationship, especially if its not been easy. Sending :hugs: your way.

Maffie - You are so brave with a young baby and another on the way. I'm in awe of you as I know I found this one so difficult. Even if by some miracle I could conceive again I'm pretty sure I won't. Congratulations and I hope all goes well :flower:

Hi Florabean - Thanks for the link! Funny Megan is doing just what Harry does with strangers in the house. I have a friend who normally visits once a week but she was ill, then her son was ill and she didn't come for about 3 weeks. Anyway the minute she walked in Megan freaked out and started proper crying. I thought I was going to have to ask her leave. It took a while but she calmed down eventually. But, take her to the mall here and she is fine. Loads of strangers but she doesn't bat an eyelid. We have one of my friends son's first birthday party to go to tomorrow and there will be loads of people and other babies. I'm sure it will be noisy so I'm really worried that she won't cope and will get frightened. Hopefully I'm worrying over nothing but she does seem to live on her nerves bless her. I think its my fault as I was super stressed throughout the pregnancy and I think she got an extra dose of stress hormones!

Although Megan is supplemented with formula I do still pump so she gets EBM too. I haven't had a period since having her either. I was going to ask the doctor about it when I take her on Tuesday. However, I have PCOS so I used to go years without one so I don't know whats normal for me. I didn't know BM changed to colostrum so early in pregnancy either.
 
Thanks Megewasmum (bloody hard when your partner pisses off with some slag) :haha: thats the nicest word I can think of for her. It sounds like your little one has had it hard :hugs: Love the avatar picture. We mix BLW and TW (although I must admit Noah is a greedy little thing it surprises me he's not a big baby)

Went and picked up a second hand buggy today which is nice and lightweight for brothers car so should make trips out easier.

Kte might be worth trying the docs again see if they can do anything different for the fissure :hugs:

LK sounds like James is doing well :thumbup:
 
Flora: There are acute ones and chronic ones and lucky me must have fallen into the latter category! I was told it would come and go but my medication ran out two weeks ago, I thought all was going well and it had finally gone but now it's back. There is an op you can have but there is a risk I could loose a bit of control down there, wind and otherwise (ick) sorry, way TMI :haha: So at the mo I just need to drink loads, have more fiber, fruit and veg and fybogel galore until I can get to the doctors again.

Maffie: Thanks, yeah I will be going back, it's just getting time off work but it's so painful it needs sorting. For the last month I have been having these special sachets which has been fantastic, I would like to have those on repeat prescription! Everything else they have given me has only worked for a week whereas these have been spot on all month.
 
Happy Friday ladies!

How everyone is well! Seems like Emma and I have had a busy couple of days- went sailing on my dad's boat yesterday and then had my parents over for lunch today. Emma loves the sailboat and has no fear when it comes to water. She kept trying to crawl over the side of the boat to get closer to the water and when we stopped to go swimming, we put a little inflatable ring around her, which she used to support herself while walking around in the water and jumping up and launching herself face first into the river. She's definitely a little waterbaby! Not too much planned for the weekend- we were going to head out for picnic tomorrow but I think it's supposed to rain :( I think my BIL is coming over for dinner tomorrow too.

Flora- Oui, je parle francais- I was in French immersion programs throughout school. I have to admit that I am losing a bit of it since I'm not using it for work, but Ottawa is a very bilingual city because of it being the capital and right on the border with Quebec (French province) so I still have lots of exposure to French even if I'm not speaking it that often (and we live in a prodominantly French suburb too). Sounds like Harry is growing well :)

Jo- :hugs: Hope you are okay

Kte- WTG Chloe on crawling!! Sorry to hear the fissure is back. I'd be leary of the op too given the side effects.

Chaos- hope Autumn is feeling better :hugs:

Megewansmum- :hi: Emma has a bit of separation/stranger anxiety too. She is especially weary of my BIL- he does have a bit of an "angry" look about him though, so she's probably just reacting to that :) I sometimes think some of Emma's personality is due to our pregnancy stress too- I always hear how bad stress in pregnancy is supposed to be but never really hear about the effects on babies' personalities later on. Maybe there is something to that :shrug:

Colsy- still no AF here but given the similarities between Monty and Emma, I wouldn't be surprised if Emma turned out to be sensitive to the hormones too. I think as long as you pump as often as you are feeding Monty a bottle, your supply should be fine. Also, when he returns to the boob, I'm sure he'll help up your supply again if it drops a bit.

Maffie- Happy belated 9mths Noah!

Aimee- hope the job search is going well :hugs:

LK- hope you are recovering okay- that must be hard chasing after james while in a sling!

Sorry if I've missed anyone! :hugs:
 
Noah seems to be teething badly, he chewed teddy and it's covered in blood. He keeps waking up in floods of tears like he's in proper pain :cry: Thankfully a big mummy hug seems to settle him most times.

I didnt realise his mouth would bleed like that :(
 
Aww- poor Noah! Sounds like he's having a really rough time with the teething :hugs: Hope tonight goes okay for you both!
 
:hugs: Katie, that sounds awful for you. :(

Megewansmum, I hope the party tomorrow will be fun! :)

Maffie, poor little Noah! I had no idea that their mouths could bleed from teething??!!! Crazy! I'm pretty sure Harry is teething too at the moment because his finger is permanently in his mouth in the same spot... I can see the outlines of every single tooth in his mouth, so I guess it's just a waiting game for when he cuts his first one. Maybe he'll be one of those kids that's gets them all of a sudden & all at once?

Kaites, my French is awful these days; my grandparents would be ashamed! Sounds like Emma had fun on the boat & in the water. i love hearing about her little adventures :)

Night night everyone.

PS. Jo, I hope you're okay hun.... let us know what's gone on if you feel up to it?

have a great weekend everyone.
 
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Morning all

:hugs: Chaos

Flora he seems to be getting more than one at a time, thankfully only up a few times including a feed so not too bad he's still in bed.

I miss speaking other languages I was ok at French and a little Spanish but they've pretty much gone now.. I do need to learn again. It always seems easier to pick up/remember when surrounded by the language.

Hope you are ok Jo :hugs:
 
Morning all,

Chaos: :hugs:

Jo: More :hugs:

Maffie Poor Noah :hugs: Chloe bled a while back, all over a cloth book, I thought at first it was running ink and then twigged it was blood, not nice! Hopefully that means they have cut :hugs:

Language wise, in the past when I have gone to France or the French speaking Swiss area then my brain kind of kicks into place but otherwise I struggle, kinda like Maffie said.

Best go, madam is up from her nap. Soon be lunch time and I haven't decided what to make yet argh!
 
Hi girls. Wheres everyone gone? lol.

Kte & Flora - work is going ok. Its very tiring. I've been off on annual leave this week which has been nice but still feel hanging. Its been unamusing trying to chase James around while wearing a sling. I gave the sling up on Friday cos it was just too irritating. Naughty I know but I've had surgery so many times I know my limitations. Tom is good. Things are going really well. Totally head over heels hehe.

Jo - hun I'm so sorry :hugs: PM me and I'll send you my number.

Really daft question.....what do you think the chances are of me falling pregnant on the implant? I had a proper period about 6-7 weeks ago and then like a day of spotting about 2-3 weeks ago but nothing since. I am majorly moody, tearful, feel really odd. I've had about a week of nausea but much worse yesterday and today. Had to stop eating my dinner last night cos I felt so bad and this morning James was swishing porridge round his mouth (his new favourite game) and it made me want to heave. I am starving all the time, have terrible reflux and am peeing loads. My boobs hurt and feel fuller. I also keep getting little bits of milk (get this occassionally anyway tho). I'm too chicken to do a test cos the thought of being pregnant again scares the shit out of me cos of what I went through last time. What do you girls think?
 
LK - I'd take a test just to be sure, I don't know if you can on the implant as I have never come accross anyone who has but once you know what its like, once you get it in your head you body can do all sorts so maybe best just to do one to be sure? :flower:

Feels like the early days, best go got a grump on my hands . . . . be back later!
 

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