calling all June Wtt-ers!!

[MrsMandy]

Well lots of luck to you dragonfly! Hopefully something will happen when your least expecting it!

Mykerby, hope you have a good 9 months!! Keep us updated!! Xx

 

[Beanonorder]

Great lines mhkerby16! Wonderful!

I finally tested yesterday and was glad to get a bfn. Now we can get on with it without me stressing out! And I suspect I may just be Oing now. Fx'd

 

[mkyerby16]

Guys I could use some love and prayers right now. My Grandma has been having some health issues and needed surgery to amputate her leg (diabetic complications) but as she is paralyzed on that side already of course we have been worried but thought she'd be okay. (She's bedridden in a nursing home but with it 100% mentally). Well my mom just called to tell me the Dr. came in and said her organs are shutting down and they don't think there's anything they can do.*DH and I have been soo excited to tell her she's going to be a great-grandma for the 1st time. We were waiting to tell my mom on her bday (31st) first and the rest of the family later. And make the hour trip to tell my Grandma probably the first week of August or so when I'd be about 7 weeks. Well now its looking like I don't have but maybe a week if even left for her and I don't know what to do. I know everything happens for a reason, but we just weren't expecting this.

 

[Beanonorder]

Big hugs mykerby16. I have some understanding of how you feel. I was further along than you when my gran took a turn for the worse. I thought she'd pass away without even knowing whether she had a great granddaughter or great grandson. In the end she recovered slightly and managed to hold on until I could bring dd home for a visit at 2 months old. She passed away two weeks after I left. You are in such a difficult position. Obviously only you can make the decision, for me, I would tell her now. I hope you and dh find peace at this time x

 

[MrsMandy]

Big hugs mykerby, and many prayers your way. If I were you, I would tell her now.
This is such a hard thing to deal with at such an emotional time for you. I really hope you and your gran find the strength you need at this tough time xx

 

[shudknow]

Mkyerby, I am sorry for what you are going through I can imagine how conflicting this time must be for you. But, I agree with other ladies on here that you should tell your grandma now. This news will manage to put a smile on her face in the difficult time that she is going through. Give her a big hug and share the news I hope she bounces back. I almost lost my grandmom last month but she has come back pretty strong. I hope the same happens for you.

Good luck mkyerby, take care of yourself and stay strong.

 

[mkyerby16]

Thanks everyone, as silly as it seems your support really does help tons! DH is terrified I'll stress too much and cause myself to misscarry, so I'm doing my best to stay calm. I agree that I would regret not getting to tell her, but its going to be very difficult to tell just her. We may have to tell everyone. I would just hate to tell everyone then something go wrong and add to the sadness. My mom is really leaning on me right now and I feel like it could give her happy news but it could add to her stress and I know she wouldn't feel like she could lean on me as much. Good news is that another Dr. came in and acted baffled that the 1st dr jumped to such dramatic conclusions. He said her kidneys are shutting down but they were getting a urologist to come in and although she's not good right now we're not quite at the end just yet. So for now I'm just playing it by ear and hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. Its just such crappy timing, this is supposed to be a happy time!

 

[MrsMandy]

Sending you all the best wishes possible. I've heard so many stories of people being told the worst and the person pull through. I'm sure she'd love to hear the good news and it just help her too!

Besides I'm sure some DR's just give the very worst case to cover themselves!!

Really hope that your gran pulls through and gets well again xx

 

[mkyerby16]

Well how's everyone else doing? I got sick in the middle of the night and still don't feel great. Idk if it's just pregnancy or the fact that I took a dha supplement for the first time last night and maybe itv didn't sit well with me, I get super sick when I eat any seafood so maybe its the same. Took my 1st digi for DH's bday this morning. It counts from ovulation and I think I'm 2 weeks 1 day from then so hopefully a good sign.

 

[MrsMandy]

It must be so exciting to see it there in black and white and words! No confusing lines!!

Personally I keep feeling queasy, and getting twinges in my belly but then I always feel queasy and get weird twinges so that means zilch! I am now on cd30 so every time I feel something odd I keep expecting to come on but still nothing - half of me wants my period to just come so I can move on to my next cycle and half of me wants it to stay away as that means I still have the possibility of being pregnant. I still dont want to test till August as I know how messed up my natural cycle is and I do think it'll be more heart breaking to see a bfn than to just come on my period! (Yes I am a little in denial! )

Doing anything nice for Hubby's bday mykerby?

 

[mkyerby16]

The words are nice to see...DH couldn't deny that lol! I don't know how you're holding out and not testing! I'd be crazy by now. We're going to a concert tonight for his bday with another couple and we decided to tell them so they don't wonder why I'm avoiding alcohol lol. I really don't feel like going, but I'm excited to tell someone.

 

[mkyerby16]

The words are nice to see...DH couldn't deny that lol! I don't know how you're holding out and not testing! I'd be crazy by now. We're going to a concert tonight for his bday with another couple and we decided to tell them so they don't wonder why I'm avoiding alcohol lol. I really don't feel like going, but I'm excited to tell someone.

 

[MrsMandy]

I am queen of holding out!! Just ask my friends who came to my hen party- they were going crazy over me NOT freaking out that I didn't know what we were doing, and the fact I wasn't askng ! I love surprises, and I guess this is just one more really big surprise (hopefully)
But mostly I'm too chicken to test and see a negative!!

Hope you have a lovely time tonight and enjoy telling your friends your happy news!! 😀

 

[shudknow]

Hi y'all, just checking in --

MrsMandy - you surely are the queen! I can't imagine how I will be able to do that, if I were you I would have been obsessing by now haha

mykerby - Glad to know everything's going well with you. How is your grandma doing?

As for me, I still have no idea when or if I ovulated . My BBT seems to be on a roller coaster ride. Looking back, I feel the room temps have been playing a lot with my BBTs but at this time, I have reached a point where I dont want to think too much about anything. I just want AF to come so that I can move on to my next cycle.So, waiting and waiting...I dont know how long I have to wait. I am on CD29 now and I decided that I wont be taking provera to induce a withdrawal bleed. I am going to wait for my body to get back on its own....

 

[mkyerby16]

I'm like the opposite I'm a huge planner and list maker, wish I could be more like you sometimes!

Shudknow- hope it all sorts itself out asap! Thanks for asking about my Grandma. I really don't know what to say tho as it's all so complicated and seems to change every minute. Last night things were looking pretty good so DH and I decided not to rush down there and we would stick to the original plan unless we got word that she was worse. Well one minute one Dr. says everything's fine, the next it seems bad. Really don't know what to think right now!

 

[MrsMandy]

Shudknow - oh I'm still obsessing!! As I said just a bit too chicken!!

Mykerby, I am a planner and list maker! I am nicknamed Monika!! But with surprises I'm wierdly calm!!!

If I were you i'd go now and see your grandma - you may get there and she's gonna be fine, but what if she's not and you missed a chance to see her? You'll not regret going, but you may regret not going!
Still sending prayers and hugs and hope she gets better soon!! Xx

 

[DragonflyLvr]

Well, got a blood test ran it came back negative so it's probably late because I was antiinflammatories and had some type of tummy virus and my blood pressure has been wierd the past couple weeks. SO I am going to get some evening primrose oil to see if I can jump start it. IF that doesn't work parsley tea. Very excited to start my second round.

 

[MrsMandy]

Loving the optimism Dragonfly, i was thinking of trying eve primrose for my next cycle but need to know my body better first I think coz they say not to take it past ovulation and I'm not sure I can pinpoint that yet!!
Would love to know if it works for you though!!

 

[MrsMandy]

So I'm trying not to get my hopes up, and trying very hard, (though honestly unsuccessfully!) not to symptom spot as I have no idea if this is how I would normally feel on the runup to a natural AF, but..
I am currently CD 33 (but pre pill I have been known to go up as high as cd42 so...)
I have been feeling quesy, (though I get that regularly anyway)
I have been having headaches (though we had the most spectacular storm last night - I laid in bed watching the fork lightning!!)
For the last couple weeks it has been unbearable to have a waistband around my stomach!
My tummy has been quite tight recently (but I may just be bloated?!)
I have got muscle twinges round my tummy and lower abdomen/groin area (I have had this before but not this regularly)
My face has exploded!!! My chin looks like a dot to dot, and my forehead is growing my very own unicorn horn!!! (But that could be the result of coming off BC)
I have an increased sex drive, even when I'm not feeling well which is very odd for me! (But again could be due to coming off BC)

I haven't had an increased sense of smell/scents making me feel sick ,or sore Boob's, and I'm still sleeping on my side/almost front - my friend said before she found out she was pregnant she found it uncomfortable to sleep on her front even though that's how she had always slept.

I have no idea, I keep daydreaming that I could be and avoiding things just in case (we had a cream tea morning at work and I avoided it just in case - very disappointing as I love scones and fresh cream!! ) but I'm trying very hard to not let myself think I really am pregnant just yet!

Just felt like getting that down in writing, any thoughts ladies or a wake up call that I'm just looking for symptoms and there's no chance I could be pregnant?!

 

[mkyerby16]

Fx'd for you! You never know until you test though! I'm having some of those same symptoms, but it could always be coming off the pill.