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Discussion in 'Waiting To Try' started by pasteljay, Oct 17, 2008.

  1. pasteljay

    pasteljay Well-Known Member

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    Hi Im 41 and just had my coil taken out to try for a baby with my partner.....I already have 4 children. It took 2-3 months to concieve for all of them, my last one was 11 years ago, whats your thoughts on how easy it could be to conceived now judging on my past?????

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  2. babybooties

    babybooties mammy to 2 little boys

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    honey i dont see why u cant have any more children

    im currently going on clomid in the next 2 day i have 1 son and for some reason 4 years on i cant seem to conceive.

    my friend shes 28 shes got 7 children she had a 2 year break and cant seem to carry another she seems to miscarry them

    if your not ok speak to a doctor how long have you been trying for?
     
  3. pasteljay

    pasteljay Well-Known Member

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    Hiya firstly thanks for the reply, oh we only literally just started trying so there is time yet but I guess I just thought that as it was all fairly quick before it may be like that this time............Im prob just clutching at straws!!!! lol
     
  4. babybooties

    babybooties mammy to 2 little boys

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    fingers crossed for you honey, :dust:
     
  5. JJF

    JJF Finished at 3

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    There is just no way to know. I have 2 kids, my youngest just turned 4 last week and I've been trying now since Jan 08 I got my IUD/Coil out in Sept 07 in anticipation of trying starting in Jan. I expected it to happen the first month but I did get prego in May, that felt like a lifetime although I know its nothing, especially to the LTTTC girls! I MC in July (my 3rd so history of it) and now I've tried again for 2 cycles with no luck :( I'm starting to wonder if the IUD did mess up my lining or something but again, it could be any number of things. I'm 31 btw.

    Good luck to you, I hope it happens soon for you :)
     
  6. TashaAndBump

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    Heya, my mum just had a baby. My little sister is now 6 months old (the same age as my own daughter!) and my mother is now 45. If you are still fertile then go for it! Your body would not let you get pregnant if you were too old! :hugs: good luck x
     
  7. Chris77

    Chris77 Mommy to PJ and Gavin

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    I really don't know. Fertility decreases after age 35 but I know PLENTY of women who have gotten pregnant fairly easy from age 36 and on. Good luck!
     
  8. LeaArr

    LeaArr Just him and me.

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    I didn't want to read and run. I wish I could help you, i am just not sure. Good Luck :dust:
     
  9. honeybunch2k7

    honeybunch2k7 Well-Known Member

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    :dust::dust::dust:

    I don't think it would be much harder. Good luck!
     

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