Hey , sorry to gatecrash your thread but I am in a similar situation and would like some / any advice // Or perhaps to be told to stop fantasizing and get on with things lol
I have a copper coil insitu, and my periods are always 27 days (exact to almost the hour lol); last month I was 6 days late. I had a tiny amount of spotting CD 29 after sex and again CD 30 after sex (just with wiping, sorry TMI) , then CD 32 a few episodes of brwon spotting over the course of the day. On the next day the bleeding was more of a flow, and red; so I just assumed my menses started properly but then the bleeding stopped the next day and had never gotten heavy like my normal period. (Normal for me is 4-5 days medium to very heavy flow)
I spent the first 2 days freaking out, done HPT was negative; told my hubby when I was 4 days late (thought he would freak out lol, but he never - thought it would have been' funny' lol) and done another HPT , negative again, by which point I was disappointed it was negative and had come round to the possibility of having another baby

(especially as my DH seemed to take it all so well lol)
After my mini period, I just thought 'oh well was not to be' and tried to get on with things (with babies going thru my mind ALL the time lol -even though my last pregnancy had me on crutches for 6 months , I am 40 next year and we already have 4 kids and had not planned anymore).
And here's the thing thats worrying me - I was on crutches due to severe spd and it took about a year afterward the pregnancy / labour for the pain to be gone entirely. The past 3/4 days my pelvis has been niggling again -not a severe pain but definitely there!! Walking up stairs, carrying my LO and pushing his buggy have become difficult; then when we DTD last night I got shooting pains down my thigh and my hip became painful too.
Am I going crazy?? Am I having psychosomatic symptoms thru being broody ? Is it just coincidental that my pelvic instability has flared up 2 weeks after my missed /weird period. Maybe my body reminding mw what spd is like and reminding me not to go down that path again lol.
I also had 4-5 days of tender/ sore breasts which has now resolved, abdo cramping for a couple of days, now gone, headaches for several days now gone, crazily enough my nails have grown too ( I bite my nails and they appeared to grow overnight lol, and I still have them today) and a yukky metallic taste in my mouth.
I know the answer is test to find out but after 3 negatives already (tested 5 days late too) and most of my symptoms now gone, am I completely wasting time and money? Maybe its my age?? Dont know what I am expecting in a reply here tbh
Maybe needed to just get it out there
Good luck ladies with your pregnancies or ttc journeys xxx Sending baby dust xx