helen1234
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hello girlies
thought i'd come on and let you know as some of you know i've had un warrented hassle at work
anyway i been sent home from work till monday this morning.
i had several interviews with HR yesterday for the greivance against my boss about him hovering and standing outside the loo because i apparently was taking too long in there. the thing was my mum called to say happy birthday while i was i there, and she were saying dont strain you'll get piles and how whe she got piles she had to sit on a ring lol
anyway....well he denied giving me a verbal warning about apparently abusing my phone which was a down right lie. he denied shouting right in my face too and that he didnt invade my privacy by being stood outside the loo for 15 mins. he was actually leaning on the door and it came out from witneses yesterday that he actually had his ear against it. anyone who knows me knows i am the type of person who hates confrontation in any form. i'm soft as grease.
he even said to a witness yesterday that if they wanted to progress in the company just make his interview as brief as he could
anyway HR were there again this morning luckily... as when i walked in my office my boss after i went home unscrewed the hinges of my door and took it CLEAN off.
well i burst into floods of tears and couldnt stop it was just the icing on the cake a work colleague fetched HR out of the kitchen to sort it out, my boss hadnt arrived either.
i just fel sooo violated i mean why take my door off its dicrimination at its worse.
anyway HR said its out of order and i dont need to be mixed up in this in my condition...
i just hope they are taking this serious. and sort him out i want to take it to tribunal but i just don't want the hassle and pressure of it.
i just want to enjoy this pregnancy this little boy i'm carrying is a result of 2 yrs fertility treatment and will prob be the last baby i ever have.
sorry to rant. rosie has a school inset day today so we're off to get a big fat burger at mcdonalds
xxx
thought i'd come on and let you know as some of you know i've had un warrented hassle at work
anyway i been sent home from work till monday this morning.
i had several interviews with HR yesterday for the greivance against my boss about him hovering and standing outside the loo because i apparently was taking too long in there. the thing was my mum called to say happy birthday while i was i there, and she were saying dont strain you'll get piles and how whe she got piles she had to sit on a ring lol
anyway....well he denied giving me a verbal warning about apparently abusing my phone which was a down right lie. he denied shouting right in my face too and that he didnt invade my privacy by being stood outside the loo for 15 mins. he was actually leaning on the door and it came out from witneses yesterday that he actually had his ear against it. anyone who knows me knows i am the type of person who hates confrontation in any form. i'm soft as grease.
he even said to a witness yesterday that if they wanted to progress in the company just make his interview as brief as he could
anyway HR were there again this morning luckily... as when i walked in my office my boss after i went home unscrewed the hinges of my door and took it CLEAN off.
well i burst into floods of tears and couldnt stop it was just the icing on the cake a work colleague fetched HR out of the kitchen to sort it out, my boss hadnt arrived either.
i just fel sooo violated i mean why take my door off its dicrimination at its worse.
anyway HR said its out of order and i dont need to be mixed up in this in my condition...
i just hope they are taking this serious. and sort him out i want to take it to tribunal but i just don't want the hassle and pressure of it.
i just want to enjoy this pregnancy this little boy i'm carrying is a result of 2 yrs fertility treatment and will prob be the last baby i ever have.
sorry to rant. rosie has a school inset day today so we're off to get a big fat burger at mcdonalds
xxx