callmedan
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I dont think there is a right and wrong way to do things, its just what is right for you!
Me and OH were going to start TTC after our holiday in May, we got engaged on the holiday and then decided to get married first (only putting TTC back 1 year)
Were quite young like you (were both 23) so there really is no rush, however while OH was at uni I was working and saving all I could so we do have a bit of money behind us now to buy our first home, get married then start TTC
I know your saying you only have £200 left after bills but there could be other ways to scrimp and save
I think it depends on your views on marriage, I always wanted to get married and now Im just TOO EXCITED and it should be well worth all the savings and planning stress! its even taken my mind off WTTC to be honest and ive had major baby fever for years
i think its very sensible to keep things out in the open with your OH and if your really not sure just go with the flow and everything should fall into place, you are still young and have plenty of time for whatever you and your OH want to do be it babies, weddings, holidays
Me and OH were going to start TTC after our holiday in May, we got engaged on the holiday and then decided to get married first (only putting TTC back 1 year)
Were quite young like you (were both 23) so there really is no rush, however while OH was at uni I was working and saving all I could so we do have a bit of money behind us now to buy our first home, get married then start TTC
I know your saying you only have £200 left after bills but there could be other ways to scrimp and save
I think it depends on your views on marriage, I always wanted to get married and now Im just TOO EXCITED and it should be well worth all the savings and planning stress! its even taken my mind off WTTC to be honest and ive had major baby fever for years
i think its very sensible to keep things out in the open with your OH and if your really not sure just go with the flow and everything should fall into place, you are still young and have plenty of time for whatever you and your OH want to do be it babies, weddings, holidays