CD43!!! Update, possible AF arrival after 45days!!

[wtbmummy]

Ok a bit of background first. I am 27, have an 18mo who was concived first attempt. I came off depo and went on the pill, after 3months stopped bc n 4months later still having perfect 29dc per month i fell with ds first try.

Fast forward to now.... Dh and I have been considering no2. So we did the same thing again... I swapped from depo injection to bcp and then stopped bcp 26th May. Had a very heavy AF. Then the following month of June I spotted for 2days totalling in around 3-4hours was as heavy as a period whilst bleeding but wasnt for long over those two days. Now I am on cycle day 43!! (N thats if you count junes af)

This has NEVER happened to me before. FF says I O'd on day 17 but i think it is wrong as we havent dtd without protection since I stopped bcp and I have done many test and got a :BFN:

Dh and I have kind of decided we can't make the choice to have no2 or not so to let fate decide. It was after that I seem to have stopped Oing

I know its silly but part of me wonders if its early menopause purely because I started my first AF at just 9yo and heard the earlier you start, the earlier you stop with only carrying so many eggs. Also I have polycysitic kidney diease (which isnot the same as the ovary kind but does mean I have high risk pregnancy and can cause lots of other symptons but I have been told my kidney function is currently normal)

Dh thinks I should see my gp but as I only stopped bc less than 3months ago I know they wont do anything. And tbh my doctor said last time I was in the day I start my next AF to call n he will book a blood test for 14days later. Just neither of us thought it would take so long.

Does anyone have any experience with any of this? I'm in WTT forum atm but feel this is the best place to possibly ask?

Is this fate telling us we will only be having ds. I'm at a point I dont mind either way as he and dh are my world but i hate not knowing

 

[cherrylips100]

I wouldn't start panicking yet. Its totally normal for cycles to be a bit crazy at first when you stop bc. Worrying might also be affecting you so try to relax and wait for it come (easier said than done I know)
The menopause is usually genetic too so unless your mum had an early one then its unlikely that you are.

 

[wtbmummy]

No my mum certainly didnt have early menopause she had another child in 2005 so she would have been 35. So I guess at least I can kind of cross that off the list.

Its just driving me crazy, I have always been so in sync with my body. I knew we were pregnant straight after it happened, n I was!!! Knowing I have always known my body has been great but now I don't its really really odd
I am currently having awful stabbing/shooting pain in my boobs n its so painful, just like when they were growing when I was pg with ds but I know I am not pg as well there is no physical way I could be Im now on cd44 n although trying to keep calm n take it as a sign I just want to know what is going on with my body. Will I O this late? N if so does that mean at least another 2weeks before AF arrives? I know the doctor wont help so I am trying to find someone who has had experiance with this?????