Exactly dani, I'm like "if I relaxed we'd never have sex in the fertile period more than likely and then explain to me just HOW that would happen?" I totally understand your frustration km even though we only tried for 7 months. I felt so sure we would conceive the first month and I felt such a massive letdown each month, like something was wrong with me. I did get my thyroid checked and it looked decent but I still had some mild symptoms. I got on a low dose of synthroid and got my bfp like four days later. Have you been to the doc? Can't remember if you're on clomid or not. Just remember, hang in there! Your forever baby is coming! As hard as chemicals are, you at least know you can get pregnant!