Spotting very light brown. She's coming. I feel crazy right now. My OB HAS to listen to me when I call tomorrow. I need some answers. Please see this thread to explain, then come back and read the rest please!
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/miscarriage-support/2378298-currently-miscarrying.html
It's now been 8 months since my Mirena was removed. 6 months since my miscarriage. A week after my loss, the office called to remind me of my u/s appointment the following day (insert middle finger emoji here).
3 months ago I had a CP (I think but all these ghost lines are making me wonder) and got faint faint lines at 10 dpo. At 11 (cd 24!!!!) AF came on. I started to suspect a progesterone issue and called my OB, left a message with his nurse (the one I've known and loved since giving birth to my daughter) and she called me back later to say that HE said "since I had gotten pregnant, to just call when I get a positive test again to have it checked." I STILL have not spoken to my Dr. whom I've been seeing since 2006 when I got pregnant with my daughter and for all yearly and other procedures since. I feel...I dunno..like he doesn't give a shit about me frankly. Which is why I have been going to him for YEARS! The "relationship." We banter back and forth and he's funny and calming and always gives you a hug when he comes in and one when he leaves (not in a creepy way ��
I mean any time there was a suggestion of abnormal cells (twice..first years ago and fine, second in Feb..LEEP procedure and everything is completely fine) he called us personally, talked to me, answered questions. Don't know why it kind of hurts my feelings but it does. I'm a bit emotional right now
I guess he expedited me thru the appt book for the procedure knowing I was trying to conceive. I get pregnant, have labs, have to call and bug him for answers, start bleeding, call him once...nothing...hubby calls 4 hours later, nothing, 4 more hours...call back by nurse at 4:30pm and you're the ON CALL DOCTOR! Then take damn notice I've fallen off your appt radar after you haven't called me back (for 6 months mind you) and don't blow me off when I have a legitimate question 4 months later and call you.
Anyways, is it REASONABLE for me to ask for HIM to call me back, now that it's 6 months and I'm 43 years old?? AND/OR, is it also reasonable for me to make an appointment with another OB in his practice who was the on-call the night before my m/c when bleeding started and she called me back straight away. A good friend has recently gone to her (that previously went to my current OB who I truly think is swamped with patients but my heart screams IDGAF) and loved her? Thank you ladies for allowing me to vent. I'm so sad right now
woman!
I do have a suggestion though. Have you tried vitex? It helps with hormone regulation and had been my go to for conceiving herb, ever since my second child. I had a short LP & was not ovulating more than 3 or 4 times a year. I had been ttc him for 15 months. I started vitex and conceived him on the 3rd cycle. Then my 3rd baby it only took one cycle on vitex. 4th took 3 cycles on vitex & this one took 2 cycles. 
