I got a bfp ladies, our God is faithful!!
Amen. God is faithful, I am happy for you! can you share any secret as to how you got bfp this month?
Im sorry I took so long to put this together
I tried my very best to be brief and straight to the point!
First, I must acknowledge that it wasnt any of my efforts or that of DHs that got us our baby on the way. It was only God and I give all the glory back to him. With that being said, here goes
Ive been married for about 10 months now and for 9 of these 10 months the marriage was a disaster. DH & I fought & quarreled a lot so the Lord first cleaned up our marriage, restored love & joy and got us on the right track.
DH & I then decided that this February cycle, well pray together every day (and we still do). During the prayers we always mentioned our desire for children to the Lord. DH also sometimes laid his hands on my stomach and prayed that I conceive.
Early January, I woke up very early one morning with a thought to start reading the book Supernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize. (I knew it was the Lord cos I had read the book before). I
STUDIED the book this time. Here are the 4 things I learnt personally & applied:-
1. MIRROR GODS WORD TO HIM, IN OTHER WORDS, SPEAK HIS WORDS BACK TO HIM: I had to memorize a lot of bible verses (with the Holy spirits help of course) to enable me continuously speak Gods word back to him during the day (I work). For example, I would go Lord, you said in your word in Psalms 113 vs 9 that YOU are the one who gives the childless woman a home making her a happy mother, therefore I believe you will give me a home and make me a happy mother and I thank you for it
2. BELIEVE GODS WORD AND CONFESS IT CONTINUOUSLY: - This came in handy with tackling anxiety and doubts that popped up often (the devil never gives up). For example, I would go Gods word says in Deuteronomy 7 vs 14 that there shall not be any male nor female barren among his people, there for I am not barren, I will conceive in Jesus name, Lord I thank you for this
3. PROPHESY TO YOUR BODY, SPEAK GODS WORD TO IT: - I would say something like Body (I speak to both DHs & mine) hear yea the words of the Lord, this is what the sovereign Lord says concerning you according to Psalm 128 vs 3, I am a fruitful vine by the sides of my house, therefore body you are fruitful, you will conceive, any form of sickness has been taken away from you according to Gods word in 1 Peter 2 vs 24, by whose stripes we are healed, Lord I thank you for this, In Jesus name (I had been diagnosed with fibroid).
4. DONT TELL EVERYONE EVERYTHING: - The Lord taught me to keep some things to myself cos telling other people (sometimes it included DH) especially those who wont cheer you on, will harm your faith.
Now for the Physical stuffs
we BDd everyday during my fertile period (it was stressful but God helped us keep up), I used preseed to grease down there (I always prayed over the preseed each time I used it, telling it that it will be the blood of Jesus in me and aid our conception). I rested a lot, tried not to worry or stress myself. I temped to help me know the day I ovulate and track DPOs and here we are today!
I hope this helps you ladies
. Ill always keep praying for you. Its gonna be a testimony filled thread for his glory! Amen!