xxx_faithful
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I was in this group when I was TTC our DD who was born in October of 2013 at 27 weeks and just 1lb 5.9oz due to severe preeclampsia. She is now a healthy 3 year old and keeps us busy!
We have been TTC for baby number 2 since September 2014, but have yet to be successful. I have PCOS and my DH has a low count. We are working with an RE to help us to get pregnant again and I'm currently in the 2WW of our first cycle of timed intercourse with femara and a trigger shot. We are praying so hard that this works.
We have dealt with so much disappointment over the last two years and it is so disheartening to know you have had perfect timing every month, but never have a single BFP. I know that God has this though and that, in HIS time, we will have another baby. After all, He is faithful and our beautiful daughter is a testimony of that (both with trying for two years for her and having two miscarriages along the way and with her being born 13 weeks early).
Hi there, lovely to find you on here. I think I remember you from back in 2013

It's comforting to know other woman also experience trying to conceive their second child with assistance. I always felt so discouraged that I had to "try again" with help from a Dr as I know many women's body begin to know what to do the second time around despite having had infertility or struggles in the past. Now that we are trying for our third I've let go of that grip and idea that things are meant to go a certain way and learn to focus on the end goal. Another baby. Another sibling for my daughter and son.
To see you have been doing this for 26 months the second time around is a true testimony of your perseverance and strength, and also your love for one another to be always moving in the same direction. I'm praying this month works for you lovely! Your daughter will be a big sister soon. Begin to make a way in your home for another child, clear some space.... I always find this a profound act.
It's nice when you have regular cycles, it makes trying that much easier. Of course upsetting if each month results in a BFN but knowing you're doing the ultimate to achieve and you are not "lacking" anything to be given a chance each month, is fortunate to say the least.
My cycles are every 35 days though sometimes they have been a touch sporadic (we've moved countries and all these big moves have made my hormones a bit touchy. It's been 8mths since returning to my
home country.
This cycle has been 50 days... *sigh* so I've decided to be more intentional about conceiving (without trying to focus too much ... not sure how I'll go with that hah!) and take clomid to help regulate and conceive.
I feel a strong inclination to clear out my thoughts and fears and do a spiritual fast this week. I'm waiting on God as to what fast I should take. Praying this will open doors and break anything in the way..
Xxxx