Christmas chat thread!

[jenny_wren]

my oh once told me to go kill myself, well
he said i should 'take an overdose and die already'
this was during my pnd ...

if we can work through that ANYTHING is possible!



going to your nans is a good idea, i'd send him a text
saying you'll be round there so if he wants to go home and
shower etc he can without you being there, he might like
a little me time in his own home, it'll encourage him to go
home aswell, i'm sure his mum doesn't want him there all week



you'll be fine i promise, he probably just as confused as you are
and men are shit at expressing their feelings

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[vix1989]

he also said to me to go kill myself last week (he knows about my depression) and didnt even care.
yer im just worried im gunna crumble to my nana
dont know where this is gunna leave us
thanks jen xx

 

[Harveysmum369]

The way I yell at Dean it's a wonder he hasn't walked out..

 

[vix1989]

lol
he said i treat him like scum and hes surprised he hasnt walked out earlier
needless to say i have a very low opinion f myself right now

 

[Harveysmum369]

DO NOT let him know you are bothered Vix,,just get on with your life.....believe me,from experience,the best way to play this is not to beg him to come back or show him how upset you are.xx

 

[vix1989]

i think i did that already.... im ashamed to say i begged hm not to leave and he left anyway now feel like an absoloute fool!
sorry for bringing u down guys!
just feel like u guys no me better then everyone else!xx

 

[Harveysmum369]

don't feel like a fool hun Just don't do it again!

 

[jenny_wren]

he also said to me to go kill myself last week (he knows about my depression) and didnt even care.
yer im just worried im gunna crumble to my nana
dont know where this is gunna leave us
thanks jen xx

you miss need to go see a doctor, i'm still on meds
for my mental health issues but they're SO much better
after therapy and treatment, it took a while but it's
certainly worth it considering how i felt a year or so ago

maybe it's time you start putting yourself first?
you need some form of help with or without your oh

depression takes a toll on every aspect of your life
only way to help yourself is to speak to someone

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[jenny_wren]

i think i did that already.... im ashamed to say i begged hm not to leave and he left anyway now feel like an absoloute fool!
sorry for bringing u down guys!
just feel like u guys no me better then everyone else!xx

'tis what we're here for

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[vix1989]

thank you!

i was on medication but came off them after 6months because i felt nothing literally just felt numb.
I tried going to doc but adam kept sying you dont need to go your not that bad!! hmmmmmm

donna- no i dont think i will ....if he comes back

 

[jenny_wren]

thank you!

i was on medication but came off them after 6months because i felt nothing literally just felt numb.
I tried going to doc but adam kept sying you dont need to go your not that bad!! hmmmmmm

donna- no i dont think i will ....if he comes back

he was wrong to say that

if you feel you need help, get it, don't let him
stop you getting your life back on track

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[vix1989]

i know gunna defo go to the doctor tho whether the insecurity is in my head or hes putting it there my depression needs to be sorted

 

[Reedy]

Oh Vix I'm so sorry hun I hope he realises what a huge mistake he's made & comes crawling back xxxx

 

[vix1989]

me 2 doubt he will tho

 

[OliveMartini]

 

[jenny_wren]

i know gunna defo go to the doctor tho whether the insecurity is in my head or hes putting it there my depression needs to be sorted

you'll feel better for it too

go get some sleep girly
bet you're nakered

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[vix1989]

so tired my eyes hurt
but cant sleep yet! when it gets to 1 then ill no hes not coming back

 

[Blah11]

vix

 

[vix1989]

still not home

 

[jenny_wren]

still not home

has he not spoken to you or anything?

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