Christmas chat thread!

[vix1989]

yer i know!
i f****** hate liars! i really do i hate them!
just dont get why he says that he needed time to think he said he was just driving round but then said he was at his mates.
Just so sick of it!
i know hes hiding summit coz theres holes in his story!
and if he lies one more time hes out on his ear.
ive just sent him a text saying be prepered to bear all if i were you id tell me EVERYTHING for your own sake!

it would be nice if he cmae home with a bunch of flowers and said vicky im sorry i was out of line this is what happened-

fat chance of that happening!

 

[jenny_wren]

i don't think he cheated

infact i will eat my own shoes if he has lol

i think he wanted to help his friend and time slipped
away from him, men don't think properly on a normal
day to day basis add booze to that and they're pretty
bloody useless

just sit down tonight once the kiddies are asleep and have
a little chat, explain that he was stupid not to tell you what
was going on as you spent the whole night worrying and thinking
he was doing something he shouldn't have, it wasn't fair on you
and he should understand that



if not i can always come round a kick him up the backside for you

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[MummyJade]

Hello Ladies...

hope your all well...

I agree with Jenny Vix, i do hope he is sorry and explains all...
x

 

[vix1989]

please could you! lol

can i ask something?
everyones said "i dont think hes cheated" sooooo many times, i know im a paranoid freak!
but thats all i keep thinking hes done!
so how dya know/think he hasnt cheated?!
just curious! sorry to put u on the spot

 

[vix1989]

thanks mummyjade!
me 2! feel so crap just wanna curl up and hide

 

[MummyJade]

I've been there when i was with FOB, he was a little sh*t for being out for all hours! and even though i did think 'maybe he has cheated' It drove me mad! but deep down i know that wasn't him...

he was more interested in bigging himself up to the lads, the drink and the fruit machines...

I would get more worried he was locked up for fighting then cos him humping some skank...

Only you know your OH and from your posts etc he seems to love you deeply, and i wouldn't think he would throw you or his family away...


People told me he cheated (his family long story) and not once did i believe it, cos i knew him..

My ex (fob) is currently locked up! happened thursday and none of his family bothered to tell me! so i am waiting to hear from him!
xx

 

[jenny_wren]

please could you! lol

can i ask something?
everyones said "i dont think hes cheated" sooooo many times, i know im a paranoid freak!
but thats all i keep thinking hes done!
so how dya know/think he hasnt cheated?!
just curious! sorry to put u on the spot

all the family hassles and things, some of the things you've
mentioned most men would have walked away a long time ago
but he puts up with it because he cares for you and your children

just from your previous posts really, he picks things
up on his way home from work etc he just seems to love
you too much for me to think he'd cheat

plus by the sounds of it he doesn't go out on his own or with
friends very much, you probably don't either to be fair lol but to me
it feels like a one off rather than a regular thing he does, all the dressing up
etc sounds normal to me, if a woman goes out on the town and buys a new
dress no one thinks twice about it iykwim, men like to feel good too lol

if my oh goes to the pub or anything (which is about once every 2
or 3 months lol) i just tell him to be quiet when he comes in or to ring
me if he plans on staying out or something's happened, but then i trust
him, maybe this whole thing boils down to that fact you don't trust him
or you feel you're not good enough for him?

might be worth having a real heart to heart rather than an arguement
you shouldn't throw 5 years down the drain over one drunken mistake
i really don't think he's cheated, it sounds more like the both of you need
to quality time together, no children, no friends just the two of you

it does sound like the two of you love eachother but there's obviously
a few issues that need sorting out, just talk it out apologise and move on

good luck x

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[vix1989]

hes left

 

[Harveysmum369]

awww hun no!!what happened??xx

 

[CRWx]

Vix

 

[jenny_wren]

hes left

i read in gs, i'm sorry hun ​

 

[vix1989]

he came home in a foul mood, i said can we talk now.
he said no im going to my mums i said why? he said coz im sick of you.
i begged literally begged aking him to stay i said i was sorry but he said its too late.
He needed to go to his mums anyway to give her some money he owed, and he said he would ring after having a cuppa so we can talk and he'll decide if he wants to come home.
but hes been gone nearly 4 hours and nothing

i text saying i was sorry please come home i love you but he wont text back

ive well and trully blown it

feel so shit

 

[Harveysmum369]

aww hun,he might still come back....xx

 

[jenny_wren]

listen to the ladies in the other thread
just give him a little room to breathe

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[vix1989]

he wont he said he doesnt wann be with me anymore

 

[vix1989]

i am going to

 

[Harveysmum369]

he is prob still angry(don't know what over) but don't text him hun..give him time to cool down..xx

 

[jenny_wren]

he wont he said he doesnt wann be with me anymore

you've both said things your probably shouldn't
have, just give him a little room and see if he feels
the same in the morning

have a bath and get an early night, there's no point
staying up crying if he wants to come back or speak
to you he will, maybe send a text in the morning just to
see how he's doing but don't beg or plead it wont help

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[Siyren]

oh sweetie feel free to pm me if you want to hun cos im not around on the board much atm,
im so sorry though, and listen to jen babe, that's some sound advice x x

 

[vix1989]

im gunna take kids to my nanas early in the morning give him more space.

this isnt normal for our relationship feel so lost
just wish he was here