We got my stepson all done last week and his mothers present a month ago. Hubby and I are probably going to just buy the big nursery items as our presents to each other. We really dont need/want anything as we already have plenty of tech toys and gadgets. Our gift to ourselves was getting rid of all credit card debt this year and we won't be using them during Christmas either! My family doesn't spend much money on Christmas. It's not that they don't have the money, but they hated seeing friends spend tons of money on mountains of rarely used toys for the kids. I agree with that. Id rather get something special and then spend the money on experiences like Disney world or other parks where my kids will remember for years.
If you don't like spending tons of money, one idea is a dress up box. My stepson loves pretending he's his favorite superhero or ninja and I waited til the day after halloween and loaded up on tons of costumes at different stores at 75% off. Girls love dress up too and they had plenty left over.