This is one of the best and most informative videos I have ever seen regarding routine infant circumcision (it does contain a clip of the procedure, which I think is helpful to watch, but this can be skipped if you are squeamish):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ceht-3xu84I
No medical organisation in the world recommends the routine circumcision of infants (https://www.cirp.org/library/statements/) - and furthermore, 80%+ of the world's male population is intact (uncircumcised) and perfectly fine
America is one of the only western nations to routinely practice circumcision anymore - other countries where it is "the norm" are middle eastern countries mainly.
There are many myths floating around about the foreskin and how it is "dirty", how circumcision is "just a snip" etc - this cited article is fantastic and full of great info
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...9/myths-about-circumcision-you-likely-believe
The HIV benefits are greatly overstated - the 60% figure you will often hear cited is only a relative percentage decrease which is TINY, from 2.49% likelihood of transmission with foreskin, to 1.18% without! Not to mention that the sub-Saharan African circumcision studies that all this info is based on is greatly flawed
https://www.publichealthinafrica.org/index.php/jphia/article/view/jphia.2011.e4/html_9
Furthermore...America has one of the highest rates of HIV/AIDs and STDs in the western world (compare it with Europe, most of whose men have their foreskins) but also a high rate of circumcision. You'd think if circumcision was so great at preventing these things, you'd see some different figures.
Regarding the risk of UTIs - girls and women get many more UTIs than boys and men do, but they are treated easily and quickly with antibiotics. There is no reason we cannot do that for boys as well. This is purely anecdotal - but my son is almost 5 now and has not ever had a single problem relating to having a foreskin, and neither has my partner, or any other man I've spoken to (the majority of men here are intact).
Penile cancer is a moot point, as it is very rare to begin with. I think it is something like 1 in 8 women develop breast cancer over the course of their lifetime, but nobody is suggesting prophylactic removal of breastbuds in baby girls to prevent breast cancer. Even the American Cancer Society does not recommend circumcision as a preventative for penile cancer. It is also a myth that only men who aren't circumcised can get penile cancer - often the place this will occur in circumcised men is the circumcision scar.
https://www.cancer.org/cancer/penilecancer/detailedguide/penile-cancer-key-statistics
Why is the male foreskin the only healthy body part that people deem okay to remove in infanthood? Food for thought...
Over 100 baby boys die every year in America as a complication of undergoing circumcision, however this is presumed to be a conservative number and has been suggested that it could be up to 300. As per this article, more infant boys die from their circumcision than they do from SIDs and car accidents
https://www.examiner.com/article/ne...te-higher-than-suffocation-and-auto-accidents
The foreskin has many functions, and cutting it off actually changes the way it functions during sex. Men can absolutely still have sex (and enjoy it just fine) without a foreskin, but it will never be as it was supposed to be.
The foreskin also contains between approximately 10,000-20,000 fine touch nerve endings (similar to those in the palms of your hands, your lips etc) whereas the female clitoris contains approximately 8,000.
https://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/functions-of-foreskin-purposes-of.html
https://www.sexasnatureintendedit.com/
The foreskin in babies and small children is fused tightly to the head of the penis by a thin piece of connective tissue called the balano-preputial lamina. This is why when you clean a baby/small child whose foreskin is intact, you only wipe like a finger. The foreskin is self cleaning, and this connective tissue helps keep bacteria etc out. Often if you have heard of a boy having to be circumcised because his foreskin became tight or he had a lot of infections, it can be due to the parents retracting the foreskin because they didn't know any better. This tissue will naturally dissolve anywhere between 3 years of age and puberty - this is totally normal
https://www.kidshealth.org.nz/foreskin-care
Lastly, I have heard of this Penn and Teller episode about circumcision being great for guys to watch as they can sometimes find it more relatable - this might be a good one for you and hubby to watch together!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmt1uPzlVaM
Hope this helps, and if you have any questions please feel free to message me!