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{CLOSED GROUP} Journey to BFP and Beyond!

Kate, that sounds so frustrating. I'm sorry you have all those symptoms. I'll be praying you get a bfp this month so you can skip the birth control.

Yay Leigh!!!!! So exciting! That's a good one! What will your due date be?
 
Congrats Leigh! That's not even faint as I could see it on the tiny thumbnail on my tablet without trying or enlarging it!



Well I still have positive pregnancy tests and the full on bleeding only lasted for a couple days and went to spotting which has now been completely gone for 2 days. But I'm still in limbo.
I was supposed to go in this ,morning to see the Dr for the results of my last two betas. The Dr wasn't in today apparently even though he specifically told me to see him today between 8 and 6... After a big fiasco getting there at all I wasn't going to have time to see any Dr before dh had to work so I went home and collapsed on the bed sobbing til dh said just to go back and take the girls with me since we had moms car today. Oh ya. So we did that and waited half an hour to be seen.
And then all the Dr could say is congratulations you're pregnant. Either the Dr ordered the wrong test or the lab screwed up because my Friday beta was *qualitative * one not a quantitative so all it does is say yes or no... I'm pretty sire it was a lab mix up because the forms were identical from what I saw and the Sunday one was definitely a serial quantitative hcg... Anyway Sundays results weren't in yet so I don't even know what it was,not that one alone would tell me anything anyway.
The pathologist said because my second form was for serial betas she would put it on file for me, so I'm hoping that just means I can go back in tomorrow for a blood draw and then get the results tomorrow night, or Wednesday afternoon at most. If I do need a whole new form I don't have time to see the Dr again before Wednesday afternoon so I probably won't bother.
But to say I've had a frustrating day is an understatement.

The fact that the bleeding has fully stopped and there is still a second line is only a good thing. The fact that the lines haven't changed much at all in 8 days is frustrating but probably just means they're cheap tests (which they are) and won't show progression rather than not rising hormone. Or at least that's what I'm clinging too. If it wasn't a healthy pregnancy it most certainly wouldn't have survived a week of bleeding right? And probably hcg wouldn't have gotten high enough to fall slowly enough to still be obviously detectable 5 days after the full bleed started.

I've also been really nauseous and have that heaviness to my uterus that comes with pregnancy. With how weird my bleeding was, combined with the nausea and full mess to my uterus I would definitely be questioning pregnancy right now if I hadn't already tested, so all good signs.
Its just so frustrating that I don't have any answers yet.
 
Thanks all!

Ugh Natalie!! That is incredibly frustrating, I'm so sorry! I definitely think everything sounds ok, with the symptoms you are having and the tests being positive that long. Hopefully you can get some better results on Wednesday that will give you something more definite.

I'm a bit concerned about my progression - since there is actually none this morning. These are tests from my past three FMUs. Hopefully they are just cheap tests, as you say Natalie, or my hcg just doesn't rise very fast (which I don't think is entirely abnormal for me). But still.... just tempered enthusiasm at this point.

Due date would be January 11 (fingers crossed!)
 

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Leigh I'd try a more reliable test at this point. But your line looks good! :) How many dpo are you?
 
I am 14 dpo. Yes, that's probably a good idea - I have some FRERs at home so maybe I'll try one of those tomorrow morning. Going to call the doc today anyway so maybe she'll even have me in for a blood test.
 
First beta 17dpo- 891
Second 19dpo- 1818 (47 hours apart)

Doubling time of 45.68 hours. Guess that is good news!
 
That's amazing news Kylee!! Congrats!! Everything looks great :)

I tested again tonight on a 5 hour hold and got a for real line this time, not just a faint one, so I'm feeling more confident. I go in tomorrow to the doc for a blood test.
 
Congrats Leigh, what excellent news to come back to! :happydance:

Katie, sorry to hear that your doctor suspects endometriosis. I’ve got my fingers and toes crossed that you’ll be successful this month :hugs: I’ve also heard good things about acupuncture but that’s really expensive. Could you have an initial consultation and ask approximately how many times you’d need to go?

Natalie, I understand how frustrated you must be after what you’ve gone through recently but your symptoms sound like good signs. Did you manage to go back in for another blood draw?

Kylee, that sounds perfect!
 
Leigh!!!!!!!! Congrats!!!! That is super exciting! What does DH think?

Natalie, glad everything is so far going well and the bleeding has stopped. Keep us posted on what the doc says.

Kylee: fabulous numbers!

And oh my gosh....all these BFPs!!! That leaves just me and Zay, right? Wow! I seriously thought mine would come much quicker, but I was definitely shown that wasn't the case! Don't feel like you ladies need to stick around here for me, but I would love it if you did! Send some baby dust to me and Zay please!!

I've put all my energy into redoing my kids rooms. They just needed an update. I'm working on a 3D butterfly wall for my oldest. It will have butterfly punch outs in different shades of pink, blue and purple and the colors will flow into one another across her walls. I'm at the point where all the butterflies are cut out; just have to put them on the wall. It's been quite tedious!!

I'm on CD6...I should O sometime between CD12 and CD15, so not TOO much longer. Fingers crossed!!
 
Katie, we're hoping you and Zaycain will also have your BFPs very soon :hugs: Sending you both TONS of sticky baby dust!

You're very creative, the butterfly wall sounds gorgeous! Post a pic when you're done.
 
I just got back with my results. Not great I'm afraid. All three tests my hcg was just 115... So it hasn't changed at all. There *are* success stories of not rising hcg so I'm not giving up hope but I do know it is more commonly a sign of ectopic and I will go get an ultrasound in two weeks instead of three just in case it is an ectopic I don't want to leave it too long and have it rupture, but I don't want to go so early they won't see anything either.
Anyway its a quandary. My gut still says its going to turn out OK so I'll go with that for now. I can't possibly be unlucky enough to have a mmc, a chemical, a vanished baby and an ectopic in the span of 7 months can I? :/
 
oh, Natalie. Hoping for a sticky baby in the right spot!!!! Trust your gut! :hugs:
 
Oh no, I'm so sorry for this additional stress you're going through :hugs: If there's a risk it's an ectopic pregnancy, shouldn't they see you sooner than in 2 weeks? I hope your instinct is right and that you're just one of those women who have slow-rising hcG. Will you get another blood test done in a couple of days? Thinking of you!
 
Oh Natalie what a roller coaster. Will they give you another blood test in a few days? Trust your gut, girl! Crossing my fingers for you...
 
Okay. So I am at an event for work. And of course they served sandwiches for lunch. And I was hungry. So I totally ate a turkey sandwich. How bad is that?
 
Natalie :hugs: Can't believe how much you're going through. But I'm with fleur, I'd definitely want to be seen sooner! But I understand why you want to wait.

Kylee, I don't really think it'd be that big of a deal. I think a lot of the stuff they say not to eat are just more of a precaution and not necessarily harmful. Especially just one time. I went to a party this weekend and they had jimmy johns for everyone (which I love! ) but dh wouldn't let me have any , not even a veggie sandwich! Definitely want that to be my first meal after delivery. And sushi. And maybe a glass of champagne (which I never actually drink but have really been wanting for some reason!) :haha:
 
Thanks for the reassurance Terrissa. So funny dh wouldn't let you have Jimmy John's. My first meal will probably be a hot dog. Is that weird? I'll probably change my mind. Lol
 
You can totally have sandwich meat while pregnant, just heat it up in the microwave until it's hot. Or you can buy some that does not have nitrates in it (Whole Foods has plenty of yummy options!)
 
Hey ladies, I was TTC for 3 years. Last October 2014 I finally seen the BFP. After 6 weeks I had a miscarriage. I was heart broken, but I know it will happen soon. No giving up for me.
 

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