Lucy&Pard
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Has anyone tried this? I have had the worst week ever (Christmas Day the worst I spent the whole everning from 5pm until 11pm in a dark room trying to consol a screaming Leo while I could hear everyone laughing and joking downstairs!!). Leo just wont settle at night and it takes 3 hours or more of me tripping back up the stairs to settle him again. I know this is normal in the beginning but he is 3 months next week and nothing has changed from when he was tiny! I am totally exhausted (not even wearing make up which is a first!) and he is just starting a growth spurt too which is making it worse. Even my mum mentioned that he was really unsettled generally and she never says anything negative! 50% of the time he is wonderful with the sweetest smiles and giggling and playing etc but the rest of the time he just screams! He always sleeps perfectly eventually and wakes up at 2 and 5 am for a feed and thats it its just in the evening and getting him to stay asleep he falls asleep easily but just wont stay asleep. And I make sure he has regular naps in the day too but not too much. Last night after I double checked everything i.e nappy, hunger, checked for nappy rash, gave colic drops etc I just walked out the room and didnt know what to do anymore. I left him to cry for like 10 minutes he sounded like he was going to make himself sick. It was awful and I couldnt stop crying too. It didnt sound like it was going to work so I went in and rocked him to sleep but it took a good hour. Ive heard people say leaving them to cry works. Has anyone got any experience of this? And how long do you need to leave them?!!!