Convinced I'm pregnant but 2 negative tests?

[treetop21]

Thank you summer pearl. I did consister a blood test but I was wondering to wait until cd40 based on the long cycle??? Will a blood test show different to a pg test??

Have you had treatment for your endo??

I've not had any experience myself but have seen woman who have had the result they wished for

I've had 3 laps, the last one being an emergency for a ruptured chocolate cyst and the removal of my right ovary and tube, I've also had a hystroscopy (polyp on womb) which came back normal.

Thanks Summerpearl, I know that's what I'm afraid of, I'm trying my best to not get too excited about it all. When is your AF due? (if you dont mind me asking lol) x

AF was 3 days late - arrived on Money - Best of luck with your test

Hang in there summer pearl. There is always hope and 1 tube and 1 ovary can do the job. A good friend of mine had a tube and ovary removed due to endo back in july and she is currently 22 weeks pregnant after TTC for over 4 years!!!! lots of baby dust for you!

 

[amylou242]

Thank you summer pearl. I did consister a blood test but I was wondering to wait until cd40 based on the long cycle??? Will a blood test show different to a pg test??

Have you had treatment for your endo??

I've not had any experience myself but have seen woman who have had the result they wished for

I've had 3 laps, the last one being an emergency for a ruptured chocolate cyst and the removal of my right ovary and tube, I've also had a hystroscopy (polyp on womb) which came back normal.

Thanks Summerpearl, I know that's what I'm afraid of, I'm trying my best to not get too excited about it all. When is your AF due? (if you dont mind me asking lol) x

AF was 3 days late - arrived on Money - Best of luck with your test

Hang in there summer pearl. There is always hope and 1 tube and 1 ovary can do the job. A good friend of mine had a tube and ovary removed due to endo back in july and she is currently 22 weeks pregnant after TTC for over 4 years!!!! lots of baby dust for you!

That's true, you never know what could happen. My friend was told she would never be able to conceive, she now has a happy, healthy 18month old. Lots of love and baby dust to you, dont give up!

 

[amylou242]

Hello amylou!

Thank you for the welcome!!!

Yes I did wonder about the ov date. I read that follicles grow between 1 & 2 mm per day so that means according to that I ov between Sunday and wednesday (2 weeks today). I just feel a bit lost in this!

When will you test??? When was af due??

I guess all you can do is keep testing I suppose!

I'm testing again on Friday morning. I don't know about AF which is part of the problem, if I am preg would have happened on the mini pill and I wasn't having any periods on it at all. So basically I'm just guessing as I think we would have conceived on the 4th Feb so the end of this week would be about right to test? I think? They say to wait about 21 days from when you had sex.

As you can tell none of this is planned at all, that is if I am preg BUT I DONT KNOW!! ARGH! LOL can you tell this is driving me mad?

 

[MindUtopia]

I had something similar happen about 6 months ago (actually that's how I found BnB!). I had missed quite a few pills over the course of a month and took a bunch of others very late. We were on our honeymoon for two of those weeks, which is why I was just not thinking about it so I wasn't as careful as I should have been. I had the same symptoms: bad nausea, minor/weird cramping/twinges, exhaustion, headaches, very sore nipples, spotting. This went on for about a week and I thought I was going to lose my mind. I didn't want to be a crazy person and assume I was pregnant, but I couldn't actually test because DH had gone away on a business trip for the week and taken the car (there isn't a shop close to us that sells pregnancy tests). Eventually, after a very miserable week, AF came mostly on time, just a few days late. I'm assuming I never was pregnant, though I guess it's always possible. My cycle was a bit weird the next month and then it got back to normal. I'm guessing the combination of me screwing up my bc for those few weeks and just general stress (I had a lot of it that was work-related that first week or two back after the honeymoon) just made my body go crazy. So it could be your body is just having a weird month, though there is of course a chance you could be pregnant too. Hope it turns out happily for you though, whatever the outcome. I really do think our bodies know what's up most of the time, so your intuition could be spot on.

 

[amylou242]

I had something similar happen about 6 months ago (actually that's how I found BnB!). I had missed quite a few pills over the course of a month and took a bunch of others very late. We were on our honeymoon for two of those weeks, which is why I was just not thinking about it so I wasn't as careful as I should have been. I had the same symptoms: bad nausea, minor/weird cramping/twinges, exhaustion, headaches, very sore nipples, spotting. This went on for about a week and I thought I was going to lose my mind. I didn't want to be a crazy person and assume I was pregnant, but I couldn't actually test because DH had gone away on a business trip for the week and taken the car (there isn't a shop close to us that sells pregnancy tests). Eventually, after a very miserable week, AF came mostly on time, just a few days late. I'm assuming I never was pregnant, though I guess it's always possible. My cycle was a bit weird the next month and then it got back to normal. I'm guessing the combination of me screwing up my bc for those few weeks and just general stress (I had a lot of it that was work-related that first week or two back after the honeymoon) just made my body go crazy. So it could be your body is just having a weird month, though there is of course a chance you could be pregnant too. Hope it turns out happily for you though.

Hi Mind Utopia!

That sounds sooo frustrating and at first I thought this may be the case for me but I have been taking my pill like clockwork, same time everyday for the past 4 years. Even then I get paranoid that we may fall preg and if I'm right then we have. eeeek!

To be honest I'm kinda getting to a point where I wont mind either way, its not perfect timing but will be over the moon if we are. Just need to know now, the waiting is killing me! lol

 

[curlygurl]

Hi Ladies! Can I join in...I am now 4 days late (I am never late, usually early). And no sign of AF, I have taken 3 tests, and all come back negative. It is so frustrating! We have been TTC for a year now - I just want to know either way! So I am going to wait and test again on Saturday if AF hasn't arrived, and either way call the doctor on Monday. I don't know - this is SO weird.

 

[amylou242]

Oh good luck curly gurl! I hope you get the results your want, sending you baby dust!

I really hope that one of us gets a BFP at least!

Let us know how you get on

 

[curlygurl]

Thank you amylou! Good thoughts for you as well! Please keep us posted! Hopefully we will both have some good news to share!

 

[amylou242]

How are we all feeling today ladies?

I'm very very tired and have a headache but haven't felt sick for the past 2 days, felt very sick on Tuesday morning. I really don't know now if I am, somedays I'm convinced and others not so sure, scared to take the test tomorrow!

 

[amylou242]

Also starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th now, I started feeling sick on the 13th. Can you feel it that early? In which case my test will be positive tomorrow if we did as 2 weeks dpo? I'm confusing myself now! lol

 

[curlygurl]

Don't feel scared! It will be fine, I think it sounds promising! I have just been feeling really tired around 5 pm. The day before AF was due and the day AF was due I was very nauseas but I don't really feel that way anymore- so I am not sure what is going on. I do feel crampy on and off. I am really hoping that it worked this time! Hopefully when I test on Saturday it will be BFP. Good luck!

 

[amylou242]

Don't feel scared! It will be fine, I think it sounds promising! I have just been feeling really tired around 5 pm. The day before AF was due and the day AF was due I was very nauseas but I don't really feel that way anymore- so I am not sure what is going on. I do feel crampy on and off. I am really hoping that it worked this time! Hopefully when I test on Saturday it will be BFP. Good luck!

Oh thanks so much!

Please let us know how you get on Saturday, really hoping for good results for you too then we'll be bump buddies!

Sending baby dust (not that I have any yet lol) x

 

[amylou242]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

 

[SummerPearl]

Thank you summer pearl. I did consister a blood test but I was wondering to wait until cd40 based on the long cycle??? Will a blood test show different to a pg test??

Have you had treatment for your endo??

I've not had any experience myself but have seen woman who have had the result they wished for

I've had 3 laps, the last one being an emergency for a ruptured chocolate cyst and the removal of my right ovary and tube, I've also had a hystroscopy (polyp on womb) which came back normal.

Thanks Summerpearl, I know that's what I'm afraid of, I'm trying my best to not get too excited about it all. When is your AF due? (if you dont mind me asking lol) x

AF was 3 days late - arrived on Money - Best of luck with your test

Hang in there summer pearl. There is always hope and 1 tube and 1 ovary can do the job. A good friend of mine had a tube and ovary removed due to endo back in july and she is currently 22 weeks pregnant after TTC for over 4 years!!!! lots of baby dust for you!

That's true, you never know what could happen. My friend was told she would never be able to conceive, she now has a happy, healthy 18month old. Lots of love and baby dust to you, dont give up!

As we all know doctors don't know everything, and it can happen. Miracles like these happen everyday. I just get really upset, my journey has been a very long one

I pray that you get your BFP real soon

Thank you summer pearl. I did consister a blood test but I was wondering to wait until cd40 based on the long cycle??? Will a blood test show different to a pg test??

Have you had treatment for your endo??

I've not had any experience myself but have seen woman who have had the result they wished for

I've had 3 laps, the last one being an emergency for a ruptured chocolate cyst and the removal of my right ovary and tube, I've also had a hystroscopy (polyp on womb) which came back normal.

Thanks Summerpearl, I know that's what I'm afraid of, I'm trying my best to not get too excited about it all. When is your AF due? (if you dont mind me asking lol) x

AF was 3 days late - arrived on Money - Best of luck with your test

Hang in there summer pearl. There is always hope and 1 tube and 1 ovary can do the job. A good friend of mine had a tube and ovary removed due to endo back in july and she is currently 22 weeks pregnant after TTC for over 4 years!!!! lots of baby dust for you!

Thanks huni I've not given up hope just yet, my mind and heart tell me everyday that one day I will be a mummy (Godwillingly), but it's the not knowing that effects me.

 

[curlygurl]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

Oh boy sorry to hear it was another BFN. However, if you think you may have concieved on the 11th - then yes it could be early. That was only 14 days ago. I think the hormone that pregnacy tests test for only begin to show up after implantation. And I think that takes a few days even a week to happen after conception. So you may be too early and still have shot. Maybe take another test Monday. Keep us posted. Good Luck! FX!

 

[amylou242]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

Oh boy sorry to hear it was another BFN. However, if you think you may have concieved on the 11th - then yes it could be early. That was only 14 days ago. I think the hormone that pregnacy tests test for only begin to show up after implantation. And I think that takes a few days even a week to happen after conception. So you may be too early and still have shot. Maybe take another test Monday. Keep us posted. Good Luck! FX!

Thank you!

I will test again Monday! Just wish I knew now either way! lol
Will let you know how I get on.

Let me know what your result is for tomorrow, good luck

 

[LaD]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

Oh boy sorry to hear it was another BFN. However, if you think you may have concieved on the 11th - then yes it could be early. That was only 14 days ago. I think the hormone that pregnacy tests test for only begin to show up after implantation. And I think that takes a few days even a week to happen after conception. So you may be too early and still have shot. Maybe take another test Monday. Keep us posted. Good Luck! FX!

Thank you!

I will test again Monday! Just wish I knew now either way! lol
Will let you know how I get on.

Let me know what your result is for tomorrow, good luck

Hi AmiLou,

Sorry I didn't respond back...I've been offline for a few days. It's been busy and stressful lately (with everything), so I didn't even check the boards.
I got my period yesterday ...it would have been day 35 of my cycle (I've never had a period that painful in my life). I was in so much pain, I couldn't move for an hr. It felt like someone was stabbing my uterus with knives. I don't know what that whole thing was, but I have a strong feeling that I was preg and that it just didn't stick. I felt sad and upset at first, but now I am just letting things be. We weren't TRYING trying, so I can't say I've been through this many times or that it's yet another disappointment...but still, once I thought that I might be, I really wanted it. (Now I am going on and on... you know what I mean).

I do believe that everything happens for a reason though. There may be other changes in my life from a professional perspective soon (fingers crossed), so I am going to take this in stride and accept that whatever it was, it happened for a reason. I guess we'll do some nt/np for a few months, but if nothing happens, I would start TRYING trying.

I read your previous posts and I am very sorry about your father. That must have been devastating. Also, I truly hope that your brother will be healthy and around for a long time - I hope his youth will help him overcome his health challenges.

Sorry to hear about your bfn...keep up the hope though because it's not over until AF shows up, and she hasn't yet, so fingers crossed...

Let us know how you are doing tomorrow, ok?

 

[curlygurl]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

Oh boy sorry to hear it was another BFN. However, if you think you may have concieved on the 11th - then yes it could be early. That was only 14 days ago. I think the hormone that pregnacy tests test for only begin to show up after implantation. And I think that takes a few days even a week to happen after conception. So you may be too early and still have shot. Maybe take another test Monday. Keep us posted. Good Luck! FX!

Thank you!

I will test again Monday! Just wish I knew now either way! lol
Will let you know how I get on.

Let me know what your result is for tomorrow, good luck

Hey! Another NEGATIVE test also! This is so weird. AF is now 7 days late. I am going to call my doc on Monday if AF hasn't shown by then...I still can't hoping that I have a chance...

 

[amylou242]

Ladies, negative again Feel like I'm loosing my mind! So tired and headache this morning plus nausea.

I'm starting to think that we may have conceived on the 11th. Would it show up on a test now? Should I test again Monday?

Argh!

Oh boy sorry to hear it was another BFN. However, if you think you may have concieved on the 11th - then yes it could be early. That was only 14 days ago. I think the hormone that pregnacy tests test for only begin to show up after implantation. And I think that takes a few days even a week to happen after conception. So you may be too early and still have shot. Maybe take another test Monday. Keep us posted. Good Luck! FX!

Thank you!

I will test again Monday! Just wish I knew now either way! lol
Will let you know how I get on.

Let me know what your result is for tomorrow, good luck

Hi AmiLou,

Sorry I didn't respond back...I've been offline for a few days. It's been busy and stressful lately (with everything), so I didn't even check the boards.
I got my period yesterday ...it would have been day 35 of my cycle (I've never had a period that painful in my life). I was in so much pain, I couldn't move for an hr. It felt like someone was stabbing my uterus with knives. I don't know what that whole thing was, but I have a strong feeling that I was preg and that it just didn't stick. I felt sad and upset at first, but now I am just letting things be. We weren't TRYING trying, so I can't say I've been through this many times or that it's yet another disappointment...but still, once I thought that I might be, I really wanted it. (Now I am going on and on... you know what I mean).

I do believe that everything happens for a reason though. There may be other changes in my life from a professional perspective soon (fingers crossed), so I am going to take this in stride and accept that whatever it was, it happened for a reason. I guess we'll do some nt/np for a few months, but if nothing happens, I would start TRYING trying.

I read your previous posts and I am very sorry about your father. That must have been devastating. Also, I truly hope that your brother will be healthy and around for a long time - I hope his youth will help him overcome his health challenges.

Sorry to hear about your bfn...keep up the hope though because it's not over until AF shows up, and she hasn't yet, so fingers crossed...

Let us know how you are doing tomorrow, ok?

Hi LaD,

I am so sorry to hear this, sounds horribly painful. But I agree you never know what opportunities may come up that you wouldn't have been able to take advantage of if you were preg, things do happen for a reason! Are you going to TTC now or wait for a while?

Tested again this morning with a FRER and negative, starting to think that I'm not preg and it was just some weird reaction to coming off the pill? Feeling a bit more like a normal person today, no sickness, not too tired etc. It's so weird how your body can play tricks on you! No AF yest though but may take a while to come back since being on the mini pill for so long...

Anyho I will test again on Friday just to be sure and will enjoy my first glass of wine in 3 weeks! lol. We're going to TTC this time next year I think if all goes according to plan.


Curlygurl;
I think that's a good plan my friend! Especially considering AF hasn't shown up, you might be getting a false negative? Let us know how you get on at the drs. Hoping for a BFP!!!

 

[curlygurl]

Doctor can't see me until March 15!! Uggh how can I make it that long? I might call my general doctor maybe she can send me for a blood test...FRUSTRATING!