Gabbygal34
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Hey there ladies. I have been ttc for 9 months now. Since January my bbs have started hurting every month which is not normal for me. Every month since then I have had symptoms of pregnancy but af would show every month like clockwork. I have 2 days of spotting and an extremely heavy flow for 3-4 days and then spotting for another 1-2 days. This period became the norm in January as well. Before that I never spotted. Just 5 days and done.
In June on CD 20-21 I spotted and had bad cramping. By spotting I mean only when I wiped and nothing more. On CD 26 I spotted again. Major cramping for a few days. No period. On CD 29 (scheduled start date for AF) I spotted in the AM and it stopped by afternoon and same for CD 30 and now CD 31 is doing the same. I have a normal 27 day cycle. I have POAS and BFN is all I get.
This cycle is weird because normally my bbs hurt a week before and this time they didn't start hurting until CD 31. And even now it is mild pain.
I feel like Mother Nature is laughing at me. Like this is a cruel joke. Am I the only one out there who thought that deliberately having unprotected sex would give me babies? I thought this is why our mothers warned us about having sex? So that babies didn't happen. But now that I want to start a family.... I feel like my mother lied to me. Lol. to all!
In June on CD 20-21 I spotted and had bad cramping. By spotting I mean only when I wiped and nothing more. On CD 26 I spotted again. Major cramping for a few days. No period. On CD 29 (scheduled start date for AF) I spotted in the AM and it stopped by afternoon and same for CD 30 and now CD 31 is doing the same. I have a normal 27 day cycle. I have POAS and BFN is all I get.
This cycle is weird because normally my bbs hurt a week before and this time they didn't start hurting until CD 31. And even now it is mild pain.
I feel like Mother Nature is laughing at me. Like this is a cruel joke. Am I the only one out there who thought that deliberately having unprotected sex would give me babies? I thought this is why our mothers warned us about having sex? So that babies didn't happen. But now that I want to start a family.... I feel like my mother lied to me. Lol. to all!