Creative ideas please - how to tell the old dear!!!

[babyhopes2010]

it doesnt feel likely though
if u want a nice house-work hard go get it
if u want a good job -work hard get it
ifu want to be wth ur soul mate find them get married
if u want to lose weight u can by healthy eating
if u want to give up smoking....will power will see you through
iv done all of these..............

This is the only thing in my life that is out of my control and the most important to me and my husband.

 

[Gemie]

I don't want to sound patronising and forgive me if you've explained this anywhere else, but could you ask about getting some tests done now?
I see you've been off depo for 21 months and I assume you've been trying for this long. Doctors test after a year of trying I thought.

You quite clearly need this so it's time someone helped you to get it

 

[babyhopes2010]

my doc wont test me! x

 

[Gemie]

Can you get a second opinion? It's not up him to play God!! x

 

[babyhopes2010]

its a her and she has 8 kids!! i will get second opinion after christmas

 

[Gemie]

bitch!! She should have more compassion it's not always as easy as just dtd and getting pregnant.. she should know better!
All the very best to you and I'm sure to see in you first tri soon

 

[babyhopes2010]

thanks hun,and have a healthy 20 weeks and a happy ever after

 

[Gemie]

Just had a look at your journal... I'll be keeping my eye clsoely on you

PS love the song your first quote is from... 'praise you in this storm'
If you're a follower of God Clare don't take your eyes off God, I know it seems he's forgotten you that is NOT the case he loves you, you're his child and he will only do for you what he knows is best for you, some things we want come quickly some we have to wait for.. those things are the most precious.
Keep focused on him Clare he knows your heart.

 

[amoreamy]

i would get her an early christmas card and write to nanny on it and then inside happy christmas, sorry i cant be there as im only tiny at the moment, but leave me in mummys tummy for another 9 months and then i will be big enough for cuddles.
or the test idea. xx

That's the most adorable idea ever!!

 

[SamiraNChris]

i would get her an early christmas card and write to nanny on it and then inside happy christmas, sorry i cant be there as im only tiny at the moment, but leave me in mummys tummy for another 9 months and then i will be big enough for cuddles.
or the test idea. xx

That's the most adorable idea ever!!

It was, so glad I made this thread, the girls gave me amazing ideas which I used and they went down amazingly! xx

 

[Teej]

I have to say I have been thinking about how to tell my mum from the second we decided to start TTC and this thread has given me a lovely idea, I absolutely love the poem that has been put on here!!!

The only thing that upset me about this thread was the poem, almost had me in tears it is so lovely!!

Im currently OVing now so by the time it's my mum's birthday on 8th dec I should know, so if I get my BFP i'm now going to make her a birthday card with the poem that is on here, it is by far the best way I have found of telling her, thank you for this thread and I wish you a very H&H 9 months hun xxx

 

[Mishou]

I think its wonderful, and posting your BFP in here verses somewhere else may upset people, but for me it gives me hope. I heard her story in a different post, and then she got her BFP and wow, I just hope that I can get mine soon! =)

(It makes me happy hearing the TTC-ers getting their BFP, because then it means someone else is next, and then possibly me. Its quite exciting)

And that is a cute idea! I cant wait to read how it went!

 

[SamiraNChris]

Thank you girlies!!! It went amazing! at the bottom of my signature is my journal link on BNB orrrr add Ickle Bean Journal on facebook

Ive not put anything on it yet, i will be transferring everything from BNB journal onto the FB one as soon as I get a chance!!!! please feel free to add me and stalk xx

 

[babyhopes2010]

hey hun thanks for the fb invite,i wont be accepting it as whilst i am happy for you i am however struggling with ttc and finding it emotionally draining and dont want to be seeing that page pop up all the time.
wish u a healthy pregnancy
p.s please be aware that the bfp journal/fb and 3 tickers plus expecting status plus posting threads on here can seem a bit much for women ttc on here.you have been a great help and im sure u can appreicate its hard when u can not seem to fall pregnant.

 

[SamiraNChris]

hey hun thanks for the fb invite,i wont be accepting it as whilst i am happy for you i am however struggling with ttc and finding it emotionally draining and dont want to be seeing that page pop up all the time.
wish u a healthy pregnancy
p.s please be aware that the bfp journal/fb and 3 tickers plus expecting status plus posting threads on here can seem a bit much for women ttc on here.you have been a great help and im sure u can appreicate its hard when u can not seem to fall pregnant.

Corse hun...like I said anyone that wants too, just letting them know is there instead of on BNB!

i wont stop posting on TTC though, i see lots of people expecting posting on TTC giving advice on their experiences and when people replied to my posts when I was TTC and they were expecting it gave me hope and made me appreciate their comments!

I still have faith that you will very soon though and sorry if I have made it difficult for you.....

 

[Lisa40]

I loved your story hun, gives me great hope.
to you & your bump

xx

 

[babyhopes2010]

u havent made it difficult i luff you!
i meant some people can find it overpowering. people usually stop posting as much in ttc as they go past first tri anyway.
i wont have a ticker when i get bfp cos id be over concious about others but thats just me lol
but yeh i get why u wanna stay cos u made lots friends x

 

[SamiraNChris]

u havent made it difficult i luff you!
i meant some people can find it overpowering. people usually stop posting as much in ttc as they go past first tri anyway.
i wont have a ticker when i get bfp but yeh i get why u wanna stay x

I'm not most people I want to keep an eye out on all of you to watch for when you get your bfp's!!! I wanna be able to go wooooooooooo and get excitedwith you!!!!! I won't just leave you all after speaking to you every day!!!

Enough of that anyway, what's happened with you, has the witch arrived yet? I frigging hope not!!!! Xx

 

[SamiraNChris]

I loved your story hun, gives me great hope.
to you & your bump

xx

Thank you Hun!!! This is what I wanted to share, even with difficulties it can happen! Lots of for everyone xxx

 

[babyhopes2010]

witch isnt here.bfns temps look fab
im sure im out this month but tbh im glad in a way cos i just started the new job and its going well so id like settle b4 getting a bump