Cycle 1 day 1. Who's with me? *update* It's a girl! Congrats baby_bray!!!

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mailcmm said:
I know. But I really won't make it to 17 weeks Without an us. Everyone else seems to get them at 12 weeks. If they can't hear it I am gonna tell them they need to check. I heard both of my kids at 9weeks. I remember because I had an us at 5 weeks with both of them to date the pregnancy and at my next apt which was 4 weeks later I hear the hb. But it's Meier here nor there as too what's too early or not, if I don't her or see a hb I will fall apart. I am beyond nervous and hitting borderline paranoia. I can't stop thinking something is wrong. I can't continue on like this. Surely they won't make me suffer thru another 5 weeks. I have my well check at 13 weeks. But if I don't hear it this week I may have a heart attack.
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I have been having the same issues with my anxiety. I am so nervous to go to the doctor next week to hear the hb. I have been thinking about it all morning and as I type my heat is beating so hard I can see my chest moving. I think we both need to relax, but it is always easier said then done. I wish I hada way to put both our minds at rest.
 
Yeah. I know. It's horrible to feel this way. And the drs just say everything is fine. Well how do they know. Last week they didn't even touch me other then with the Doppler that didn't find a hb. She just asked how I felt took a listen and sent me away. At least you have had so verification. I have had nothing. I hope you get some peace and I know everything will be fine with your baby.
 
Morning gals,

I am so sorry that you are feeling so much angst. I totally know how you feel, but honestly hearing the heartbeats one day is great, but then what about the next and the next? You know? It does feel great that one day, but then I just get paranoid all over again the next day. It seems to be never-ending. Maybe I'm just crazy and y'all can take that feeling from one appointment to the next. I'm such a crazy-head though. I do understand though mail--technically, it's been 6 weeks for you. :wacko: Like Berdc said, I wish there was something we could do!! :shrug:
 
menb said:
Morning gals,

I am so sorry that you are feeling so much angst. I totally know how you feel, but honestly hearing the heartbeats one day is great, but then what about the next and the next? You know? It does feel great that one day, but then I just get paranoid all over again the next day. It seems to be never-ending. Maybe I'm just crazy and y'all can take that feeling from one appointment to the next. I'm such a crazy-head though. I do understand though mail--technically, it's been 6 weeks for you. :wacko: Like Berdc said, I wish there was something we could do!! :shrug:
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I am good for about two weeks after the appointment then I start to freak out again.
 
Yeah but then you have another appointment in 2 weeks. I am officially at 4 weeks of total crazy. And since tomorrow is an appointment for my back they may not check anything and I will have to wait til next week to freak out in the office. Then say at that appointment they say no you will have to wait til your next appointment then it will be a total wait of 11 weeks to find out if everything is ok. So if tomorrow they say I will have to address it at my next well appointment I am taking my brother with me to the appointment. The dr I am seeing knows him. My brother does all his IT work and maybe he can say look doc she's gonna go nuts. Lol although I passed nuts 3 weeks ago. I wish I could blame the Doppler but I broke down and bought that in hopes of getting rid of the worry. In hindsight I shouldn't have posted that video. Lol then I would be blissfully happy listening to my own hb and at least that would get me through. I really want to believe everything is ok I just can't. Sorry I am Debbie downer but I can't talk to dh because he has been an even bigger basket case then me. He acts like I am gonna break or something bad will happen if I take the clothes out of the dryer.
 
I was gonna ask when that is. Twinkie... Keep us posted.

So I totally shouldn't of had totinos pizza for lunch. Yuck! Lol
 
Back from my U/S, saw a little bean with a heart rate of 145, I am so excited. I have a picture but no way of scanning right now :(
 
did a test but it was neg would be 7dpo max so prob to early anyway tender boobs but im not hopeful
 
Congrats Twinkie!

Stop worrying mail. Baby is fine!

Hang in there tv. Got plenty of the tww yet to get your bfp.
 
Not having a good night when it should be the best night. Dh gave me my engagement ring. We've had this big romantic evening planned. But a few min ago I went to the rest room and my discharge looks a little brown. Having a coronary. Don't know what to do.
 
So I just went again and it's white. Will mention it tomorrow. Gonna try not to stress (ya right) lol
 
Hey ladies - this is my first time posting here, but reading your posts I know a lot of us are in the same boat. I'm 4 1/2 weeks pregnant after having two recurrent miscarriages. When I became pregnant again after my first miscarriage, I thought for sure that everything would be fine (since I have two healthy boys at home already and those pregnancies had no complications whatsoever), but even with that confidence I still secretly worried. I checked the toilet paper every single time I peed, and always had the fear in the back of my mind that I would see blood - and sure enough after 12 weeks (and after a healthy heartbeat at 8 weeks and after awful morning sickness for 6 weeks) I saw blood and it turned out to be the worst, another miscarriage. Had to have a D&C that time since I was so much further along. It is devastating to lose 2 babies in a row, because you start to feel like you won't be able to have a successful pregnancy. I don't know how some poor girls survive going through 3, 4, 5 in a row.

Trying to put fear aside, we decided to try again right away and I ended up getting pregnant after having only one AF following my D&C. If only staying pregnant was as easy as getting pregnant has been for me!

Anyways, here I go again - I hope I can take some comfort in talking to you guys that are going through the same thing, and offer advice to anyone going through a miscarriage or D&C for the first time since I've been there so recently.

Take care!
Adrienne
 
Hi Adrienne and welcome. So sorry for you losses and I hope this is your sticky bean. You are welcome to join us. There are some wonderful ladies here. We've been at this for months and I can say they are tops.
 
Thanks Moter... I am ok I think since I haven't seen anymore. Just wish it was tomorrow already.
 
Hi Mail - thanks for the welcome! And congrats on nearing the end of your first trimester. The hardest part is almost over for you! Good luck at your appointment tomorrow :-)
 
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