Speaking of teens: my hub and I are youth leaders at our church and one of our former youth (she's 20 now) got pregnant the same time as our first pregnancy in August. I've been helping her as much as possible, but it just hurts sometimes, ya know? Friday she called me to ask if she could use my pregnancy books, "since you don't need them right now." agh. I know she didn't mean to say anything so hurtful cuz she has no idea of our struggles, but man I sure do just want to

her.
I know completely how you feel. My highschool cousin and his girlfriend just found out they were having a boy. She got pregnant almost the exact same time I did and actually has roughly the same due date I did and I just can't understand why two teenagers with no jobs, poor grades and in no way wanting a baby get to be pregnant and keep theirs while myself and DH, two adults with jobs, going to school to better ourselves and been together for 7 years can't keep ours... it drives me insane and makes me feel so angry and hurt... I'd never wish what I went through on anyone, but my goodness do I feel a great deal of dislike for the two of them.
My son is actually a product of teen pregnancy. I was just 15 when I got pregnant with him and 16 when I had him. Teen pregnancy is always hard for some people to accept, but I tend to have a different outlook on it. I do not in any way think that a teen should try for a bay, but it is does happen I think that it is great when they step up to the plate and take responsibility for their actions.
At the time I did not see it, but now that I am older I believe that my son was an angel sent from God. Around the time I got pregnant with him my friends and I was drinking and smoking pot. Shortly after I found out I was pregnant my friends started doing pills. I lost contact with them because we lived different life styles. Almost every one of the girls that I hung out with before I got pregnant has spent time in prison for various reasons. I think that God gave him to me so that I would change directions with my life.
Fast forward 15 years and here I am in the same boat as you! I have lost two angels for unknown reasons within the last five months. God does not bless a woman (teenager or grown adult) with a child for no reason. He has a plan for them, and it is up to them to choose what path to venture down after receiving their blessing.