I'm like giving all my demands to DH when its over. "right give me that cushion" "and the other one" "now lift my bum up and put them under" DH.."can't you get you bum in the air yourself" Me: "no I can't get my bum up on my own I'm trying to hold this stuff in" DH..."thought you were flexible with that yoga you did" Me: "i did that more than 7 years ago" "my tummy is in the way" "ah..watch its going to come out" "the cushions are slipping from under my bum...fix me" "now put the tv on" "give me the remote" "give me the mobile phone for the alarm". Then I am left alone!!!