oh
my
gosh
you guys, i just used a softcup after bd for the first time and i made my oh take it out to condition him out of his initial squeamishness. it's only fair, i took the plunge and put it in. i'm proud of ourselves. we watched the video on their site before we did it https://softcup.com/product/video.php , and i watched this earlier today https://youtu.be/2drNCv9ac1I
you guys, this experience of putting the thingi in and taking it out just blew
my
mind
lol
it totally caught the majority of the swimmer goo and was keeping it in!
it was so neat when he took it out, i was like whoah.
ok, i'm officially an adult (i'm 33 years old for anyone who's wondering my age in numbers)
so practice round, check
next friday for real!
by the way, i've been reading this old thread https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/173508-softcups.html and wow. a LOT of the ladies got their bfps shortly after beginning to use these softcup thingis. i haven't gotten to the point where people eventually start using preseed too... imma keep reading....
i have noticed that after bd, i sort of dry up and oh's semen almost leaves me irritated... so maybe these two things will seriously up my chances, but im tempted to just try the cups this cycle and see if it does the trick like it has for so many people. i have a theory that it's good to get up and walk around, have an active day after bd-ing during o, and these cups would make it possible to do that without squishing out all the swimmers.
haha. he just came over here and i had to hide what i was writing
he wanted to know "did i get a blue dot?" he means on the fertility friend application on my phone. funny stuff