oh no! that must have been so hard to hear and so hard to admit on her part. for what reason? yes you aren't finding it easy at the moment but thank your lucky stars that you are blessed already. that you want another child is not selfish don't feel guilty, just make sure grateful at the same time
my mum asked me bluntly today whether I was trying for a baby today. I couldn't lie and said yes. but then had the onslaught of is this the right time? can you afford it? why are you putting your career on hold? I'll be honest I was speechless, it made me question things but for all the wrong reasons. we are happy, both in stable jobs with good money, have our own home. and more importantly it feels right and we are both happy with the decision and the lo would be well loved. I just feel really fed up and down tonight
my mum asked me bluntly today whether I was trying for a baby today. I couldn't lie and said yes. but then had the onslaught of is this the right time? can you afford it? why are you putting your career on hold? I'll be honest I was speechless, it made me question things but for all the wrong reasons. we are happy, both in stable jobs with good money, have our own home. and more importantly it feels right and we are both happy with the decision and the lo would be well loved. I just feel really fed up and down tonight