Darling buds of May and June bugs!

[minidancer]

Yeah I remembered you saying before yours was 2 days out. Back when I first found out, according to online calculators my due date was the 18th not 16th so it would be a Friday I would go up a week. The midwife used her chart thing at first scan at 9 weeks and said my due date was 16th and her calculations made it a Wednesday to go up a week. I just don't understand how it can be different when she used the same chart at 22 weeks, it must be the leap year thing! I know baby will arrive when he is ready do it doesn't really make much difference, don't know why it's bothering me so much!! Think il see what midwife says at next app, it will prob e different again to confuse me even more

 

[moggi]

I do know what you mean though, i was absolutely gutted when then put me back two days. I've had due dates ranging from 18th may to 22nd may?! Silly really that we're so bothered isn't it? Must be hormones XxX

 

[minidancer]

Yeah I'm blaming the hormones!! Why else would something so stupid cause so much annoyance Have you heard where your placement is yet? Hope they get it sorted for you soon!! xx

 

[moggi]

I know, damn hormones lol. No still haven't heard, they were trying to find me somewhere near by due to my 'condition' as the put it.

 

[akjk]

well we found out the 2nd that we are Pretty sure it's a GIRL!! Now anyone have good ideas on names because we are stumped! lol

 

[moggi]

Another girl! Congratulations As for name suggestions i'm not the best person to ask. I'm struggling to think of middle names at the moment XxX

 

[minidancer]

Woohoo congrats Amber!! Another girl for the thread!! Can't believe how many girls there have turned out to be!! Ha ha don't ask me about names, we can't agree on any and it was the same last time. Have you got any that you like?

Ha ha Rose sorry but that made me laugh, you are pregnant, not suffering from a condition!!! I really hope you get a placement that you want especially since you had been looking forward to the one that was cancelled

 

[moggi]

I know, its stupid isn't it? Lol. I will be in a primary care setting wherever i end up, but do hope its not too far away because i don't drive and some places are a pain to get to. Also they won't place you too near to home incase youre visiting your neighbours as patients. Nightmare, hopefully they'll find somewhere soon XxX

 

[minidancer]

I hope you find out soon then so you can get organised for it. Just think soon you will be able to put your feet up and chill out until Isobelle's arrival without worrying about uni

 

[moggi]

Yeah, i'm looking forward to that lol xxx

 

[meganOUFC]

Hello sorry I haven't been on. I've been in a bit of a huff about having another girl. I know that sounds silly and selfish and I don't know what came over me because until the scan I didn't mind at all just thy it was healthy. And she is.
The emotiOns I have been feeling this week are really overwhelming and extreme! I am really shocked. And embarrassed. I think I've had a touch of gender disappointment to say the least. I'll get over it , but I guess
I secretory wanted another son and now I feel cheated. At least i cant be blamed for it!!! Hahahahahaha since we don't 'make' the sex lol
But since yesterday I have been able to talk about it and 'announce' it properly. So sorry not been about x hope u r all well. And I promise I will get round tO scanning the SPD stuff on tomorrow evening as Ashley is at wOrk then xx

 

[minidancer]

aw hun sorry you have been feeling that way! It is nothing to be ashamed of and so many people feel gender disappointment to some degree. I know I definitely did last time as everyone had been telling me I would have a boy and even tho I knew deep down it was a girl, I was still a bit shocked and sad for my hubby that it was a girl as he had been so sure it was a boy. It did pass though and we both got really excited about having a girl and now we would never change it for the world! Hope you are feeling better and please don't feel bad for being disappointed Xxx

 

[moggi]

I can relate to what youre saying, i was desperate for a boy and was sure she was until a couple of days before the gender scan when it started dawning on me that it could be a girl. I felt guilty for not wanting a girl then. It was all a bit confusing really. I still remember the horrible sinking feeling when she said its a little girl in there and yes i feel terribly guilty for even thinking I thought that. I've got over it now though, not the guilt i felt though, i'm just relieved shes a healthy little girl but I must admit I do feel a twinge of jealousy when I hear someone's expecting a boy. Can't explain why at all to be honest because I'm loving collecting pink and hello kitty things lol. I will try for another baby after isobelle and if i'm lucky enough to catch again at my age i'm fully prepared that it'll be another girl lol. When i had my first daughter it didnt really bother me even though i wanted a boy from the start. I was convinced emma was a boy and when she was born i gave her to her dad to hold first, i made some crap up about being too tired to hold her, i soon got over the fact she was a girl in a few hours lol. I am upset i ever felt like it in the first place though, my girls as they've grown up have defined who i have become to a certain extent and I wouldn't change anything if i did again. Now i've got another one kicking away as i type (blimey that was a bit profound for me on a friday evening lol) This is the second time I've said this today but i think our hormones have so much to answer for! XxX

 

[meganOUFC]

Hormones really don't help. I feel bad as the kids kept wanting to talk about it and ive been so moody. Tellin them to stop keep talking about it and like a child I deleted any baby related post on my Facebook. I kept getting messages asking me pink or blue and I just kept deleting them. I even screwed up the scan pictures and threw them in the bin. Someone took them out as I found them in the cupboard.
But I am getting used to it and I even brought something girly today. Only mittens but pink ones and they are so cute.
Funny u should say about not holding ur daughter first as that came to my mind. That I didn't want hold her or even name her. I even said in mykonos there was no way I was going to breast feed and I thought I've got to go and buy some bottles.

Thank fully these thoughts have gone and I went and collected my free breast shells from
Boots today and my free changing bag. Been looking for some bargains like cots and stuff.

Thanks for the support xxxx

 

[Elanesse]

x

 

[moggi]

Awww megan you've really bought a tear to my eye. I'm so glad you're feeling a bit better now. I saw your scan pic on fb but it won't allow me to like or comment on it but shes beautiful. We're here for you, i guessed something wasn't quite right from your post on here but i didn't want to pry. xxx

 

[akjk]

i have a list of names but every one is vetoed so not helping...

Woohoo congrats Amber!! Another girl for the thread!! Can't believe how many girls there have turned out to be!! Ha ha don't ask me about names, we can't agree on any and it was the same last time. Have you got any that you like?

Ha ha Rose sorry but that made me laugh, you are pregnant, not suffering from a condition!!! I really hope you get a placement that you want especially since you had been looking forward to the one that was cancelled

 

[meganOUFC]

I think we need a list of names to help us all!

 

[moggi]

Morning ladies, Mark finally felt her kick last night! Don't feel like i've been imagining it now lol. Hope everyone's having a nice weekend xxx

 

[moggi]

Off to see my baby girl again today xxx