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[moggi]

I'll be relieved next tuesday when i'm 24wks but even more relieved because thats the day my decree absolute is going through in court. The *******s been round this afternoon starting trouble again. I don't know what to do anymore. He was seeing someone for a few months but since she dumped him hes started slagging me off everytime he sees me. I can't tell mark as he'll go round and have it out with ex which he'll love coz he'll be the victim again. What kind of sick ******* does this anyone let alone someone who is nearly 6 months gone. Just can't stop crying, Marks moving in tomorrow this was supposed to be a happy week but that spoilt ******* just cant stand to see anyone else happy. Sorry about the rant, i thought h'd stopped treating me like it but he told me earlier he'd never stop after what i did to him. I ended an unhappy marriage now it looks like that psycho is going to do everything to try and never let me forget it. Had to physically push him out of front door earlier, how can everything come crashing down again when i thought he'd stopped all this behaviour. I'm not sure where to turn.XxX

 

[minidancer]

Aw hun I'm do sorry you are going through this and having to deal with this shit, especially being 6 months pregnant! Can you not go to the police and get some sort of restraining order against him, surely it will be seen as harassment and threatening behaviour if you ate having to physically push his out your door. You don't really need to have anything to do with him
once your decree absolute comes through so it would be the perfect time. You can't keep putting up with this and by the sounds of it he won't give it up. You don't want to have to worry about this when Isobelle is here. I am so sorry you are dealing with this hun, I'm always here if you need to talk

 

[moggi]

I don't know what to do. He said once 'its' born, talking about Isobelle he won't be able to look at it or me anyway because i've made such a fool of myself and everybody thinks i'm a idiot having a baby. I'm reluctant to involve the police at the moment but its looking like it might come to it. I can really do without this, why can't he just man up and stop playing the victim. Found out too that the £100 he had off me to take emma to get new school uniform has been spent by him. He told me he'd given it to his mom to look after. Lying *******! XxX

 

[moggi]

My modems playing up too has anyone got a sky broadband wireless router one of the older black ones made by sagem? Think i threw my manual away like a numpty, so not sure what the lights on it mean. Not having a good day today XxX

 

[minidancer]

What a total dick!! He sounds like a total idiot and sounds like he is jealous of your new life.

Sorry I don't have a sky modem, we used to but its long gone along with all the manuals. Can you try googling it? xxx

 

[dt1234565]

His a complete cock.

I'd get the police involved. He will probably say very nasty things when Isobel is here to. All down to hs jealousy.

Maybe sky broadband is playing up today, not your modem?

xxx

 

[moggi]

Thanks ladies, haven't had any trouble from him since. He was even normal when he brought emma home tonight. This doesn't mean I trust him though, i'm hoping he'll lie low once he knows mark is here full time. On a lighter note, modem and pc seem to be working better than they have done for days! lol xxx

 

[gypsy1981]

Men like that are cowards, I bet he backs right off once Mark is living there with you. Isn't it funny though how they are nice as anything when their own love lives are going well and total pricks when they're not?! My ex is exactly the same, although he's all loved up at the minute so he tends to leave me alone unless he needs to contact me about the house we own. Personally I would have smacked him one for calling Isobelle an "It" - how dare he!

Finally at my V day - although little missy gave me a bit of a scare yesterday as I went to the loo just after lunch and there were a few spots of blood on my underwear. She didn't move for a few hours either so I got pretty scared but then she started kicking like crazy so must have been having a nap. I've still not figured out where the blood came from but there was none when I wiped and there's been nothing since. I can only presume I had a small cut or something...

 

[moggi]

congrats on getting to 24 wks! I get tiny bits of blood sometimes when i wipe or on jy underwear. I think its because my skin has got so sensitive now i only have to scratch it and its bleeding. Isobelles being very quiet today, they do have their quiet days though don't they. I've just eaten a chocolate bar so she might wake up in a bit. Finally yes youre completely right about my ex, sounds like we have a lot in common with idiots from the past lol. It is purely jealousy which i think is absolutely pathetic but so is he so thats that really lol. XxX

 

[minidancer]

Woohoo for v day Nicola I sometimes get streaks of blood too, especially did in first tri but had it with my little girl too. It could be a scratch or it could also be your cervix which can be easily irritated and bleed due to increased blood flow.

Rose yes they definitely do have quiet days, my little one seems to be having a quiet one today too,just felt a few wee nudges and kicks but nothing major, i'm sure he will be back to his usual wriggly self soon.

OMG just watched last nights OBEM, i think I cried all the way through! What an amazing story and a lovely ending for them!

 

[moggi]

Morning ladies. Has anyone else ever heard of babies being 'viable' at 23wks? I hadn't until I was reading my free book out of my bounty pack. At the bottom of the page about wk 23 it says 'now considered viable'. Is this some new development that we don't know about or has the book got it wrong? Lol xxx

 

[moggi]

Ok done a bit of investigating and wish I hadn't to be honest its all pretty grim reading. Slightly higher percentage survive at 24 than 23. Figures seem to be produced from 21/22wks onwards. Anyway Isobelle is forbidden to leave my body for another13wks at least! Lol XX

 

[minidancer]

STEP AWAY FROM GOOGLE!!!Are they maybe talking about weeks from conception rather than weeks pregnant? That would mean 22 weeks would be the actual age of baby when we are 24 weeks pregnant. That's the only thing I can think of. Don't worry Isobelle will be kicking lumps out of you for weeks to come!! xx

 

[moggi]

No i'm not worried i'm just intrigued lol. Seems a really grey area. Got info from royal college of obstetricians so reputable site and yes talking about gestation as we know it. Draft paper dated this month, sorry its my training spilling out lol, i have to find recent evidence for everything. Sometimes it spills into non uni stuff, sometimes i'm such a geek lol XxX

 

[minidancer]

Ha ha don't worry I am the same. I find having a medical science background bad for me, it makes me question so many things and I am always digging out my old uni books looking things up

 

[moggi]

We're a pair of geeks together lol. On a different note, I have thrown so much away over the last couple of days. I'm having a real 'life laundery' at the moment XxX

 

[minidancer]

Ha ha yeah!! Ooh it's great throwing away stuff isn't it? We are going to be moving after baby is here so I have started getting rid of stuff and will start packing stuff bit by bit from now. Ha ha life laundry, I like that description!! xx

 

[meganOUFC]

I was only talking about this the other way. Scary thought isn't it! and i like the idea of forbidden!! LOL
well i have scanned the booklet.............. at last! yes i know!!!! x

 

[meganOUFC]

symphysis pubis dysfunction

 

[meganOUFC]

Last page, trust me to scan it upside down!! If anyone wants. pm me your e-mail and i will email it to you, at least you can turn it the right way then LOL!