***December Dreamers*** 70 babies born***

I try to avoid the programmes which are sad and don't end up happy. I watched a programme the other day about ill babies and all of a sudden they said a baby had died that they had been following for the entire programme..... I was in such shock! Children aren't supposed to die in programmes. I cried for ages!!
 
man you ladies are writing looooads! didn't read through anything from yesterday to now, but just wanted to announce that i broke up with FOB!!!!! i feel soooo much better!

i sent a huuuge email explaining things as i know how he gets and didn't want the face-to-face conversation for my well-being. right after he received the mail he called and i had to listen to hundreds of F-bombs. he decided to leave work and come home to talk about things and i made clear to him, that i wouldn't talk to him if he won't calm down. he did calm down, the talk wasn't pretty though, but it's all out now and as my retreat i'm now booking a private scan for the first july weekend. he apparently committed to paying half of the medical expenses, so my burden goes down by over $2000,-. i'll see if he really does, but he knows what is at stake!

thanks for your kind words again yesterday!!!!!!

off to work now.
 
man you ladies are writing looooads! didn't read through anything from yesterday to now, but just wanted to announce that i broke up with FOB!!!!! i feel soooo much better!

i sent a huuuge email explaining things as i know how he gets and didn't want the face-to-face conversation for my well-being. right after he received the mail he called and i had to listen to hundreds of F-bombs. he decided to leave work and come home to talk about things and i made clear to him, that i wouldn't talk to him if he won't calm down. he did calm down, the talk wasn't pretty though, but it's all out now and as my retreat i'm now booking a private scan for the first july weekend. he apparently committed to paying half of the medical expenses, so my burden goes down by over $2000,-. i'll see if he really does, but he knows what is at stake!

thanks for your kind words again yesterday!!!!

off to work now.

Good for you hun :) you have to think about you and baby now! Anyone who jeopardises either of your happiness isn't worth it.
 
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Hahaha, I think I did this right... or maybe I didn't and I look dumb now for trying. The first is the crib we will be getting, and the second is what I think of when I think of changing stations. The one you linked Charlotte looks pointless. I suppose afterwards you could put toys on it, but it doesn't even look very sturdy.

And what is a top tail bowl?? And while I'm at it... what is an OH?? I get so confused sometimes...

Mincholada, way to go. Sounds like you will do way better without him! Just stay strong, and you'll be fine.
 
OH means Other Half @sherri... so like DH for dear husband or FOB for father of baby
 
Im shatterd tonight but i had a nap so wouldent be able to sleep.
 
sherri there lovely, good quality u can tell.
Yer that chnage station i showed u is pointless thats why i say not to buy the lol
 
I've been so lazy today that I know I won't sleep either.

Oh god my OH is leaving work soon and is going to pick me up and go get a mcdonalds..... why did I say yes?! I'm not exactly starving! Well I am supposed to be trying to put weight and I have eaten well today (excuses, excuses!)

Maybe I'll just have a hot apple pie :winkwink:
 
Evening Ladies

It has taken me over an hour to catch up and now I'm so tired I won't be staying on here!!

I AM TEAM PINK!!!! We found this out when we got the CVS results - I may have forgot to tell you because of the excitement of beanie being healthy!!

I loved all the names you mentioned.

It looks like I'm the only one who used the top and tail bowl!! I used to use this with Mollie every morning mainly to wash her face and get sleepydust from her eyes. She would have a proper bath everynight as part of nighttime routine.

I have been out shopping too. Although we have all Mollie's clothes I haven't yet decided whether I can use them - it maybe too hard. They are all packed away at the moment so I'll wait and see how I feel when I have the strength to go through it all. I have bought a newborn pink sleepsuit though :haha: I also bid on a wooden crib on ebay last night (not really expecting to win) and I won it so we've been to pick that up today.

It's so warm - is anyone else strugglng with the weather?

:flower::flower::flower:
 
im sooooooooo tired tonight, i wish i had a bump instead of just fat then people would understyand why i order a huge meal and eat 3 forkfulls lol
 
I "think" im starting to feel baby move. Its like butterflys in my tummy
 
Many Congratulations 'Butterfly' that is really such lovely news...:happydance::baby:
 
Congrats Butterfly on team pink! I've seen so many cute girly outfits, so hard to resist!

Good job Mincholada on getting rid of the negative influences in your life. Baby may never know the things you did to protect him/her, but they will appreciate it. Also, thanks for clearing up the meaning of FOB, I had a much nastier interpretation made up in my own mind:haha:
 
I don't think I posted this, but in case I have, please disregard. I forget where I was in posting when my ITouch died.

Butterfly.... massive congrats! I'm so jealous of you for having a girl!!

So... I started having some pain yesterday under my stomach and radiating up the sides of my beely. It was sharp pain and it came in waves. So I decided I'd better go see the Dr today in case it was an infection with my stiches. So I couldn't get in to see my Dr, instead I got in to see a Dr fresh out of med school.... NOT so good with my history!! When it comes down to it, I know more about complicated obstetrical issues than she did. So right off the bat, I explain that I had surgery just about 2 weeks ago to have a cerclage placed. So I explained my pain and said I was concerned it could be an infection. Well right away she says (and yes I had told her my history at this point), well if you're having pain, then you could be miscarrying! OMG!! Don't say that to someone who has madee it to 16.5 weeks and has my history. So she asked if there was bleeding.... no. I kept saying I think I have an infection. So she starts telling me she is going to do an internal exam..... UM NO! My high risk Dr won't even do an internal, ESPECIALLY not after having had surgery there less than 2 weeks ago. So I tell her no, she won't be doing an internal and explain why. But she says no, she has to do one. I say no. She says she will only stick the speculum in a little.... umm still a no. I was just about ready to leave when she agreed that we would just do a pee test. She first did an abdominal exam... I'll be surprised if she didn't squish the baby all to hell. She was pressing HARD!! Then she did the doppler... I swear the baby was pissed; it's heartrate was around 170! Finally I do the pee test... and guess what, white blood cells in my urine! Imagine that, I have an infection... like I said. At this point we are assuming it is just a UTI.. I am getting achiness in my right kidney area, so hopefully the antibiotics kick in soon. I also have glucose spilling into my urine.

She had me freaking about that, but I managed to get ahold of my OB after I left the other Drs and she assured me that if there was a problem with the stiches, I would be in way worse pain and there would be lots of bleeding. She said it sounds like a simple UTI, and she called in a prescription for me. She also said not to worry about the glucose as almost everyone gets that at one time or another.

So I'm kind of feeling crappy. But hopefully I am on the mend, and hopefully there will be no bad effects on the baby.
 
Sorry to anyone that already read the thread i posted.

But I got a call from hospital yesterday afternoon and they have called me in for a consultants appointment this morning as my downs testing came back 1 in 100, which im told is high risk. Now wishing i hadnt had the test at all. So got to go and see what they have to say and try and decide what to do next.
 

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